what are the chances that i get pregnant after having sex when he pulled out?... im 17 and we used condoms at first, but then we didnt have any so he just pulled out.. i started birth control 4 days ago but planned parenthood said it should take about a week to kick in the right way...something inside me tells me im pregnant... am i just going crazy or is my body/mind telling me the truth?
2006-12-30 13:24:31 · 7 answers · asked by SiLLYsTRiNg4499 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If it's just a feeling, I'd suggest you wait til there's something real to base it on - have you missed a period (are you regular)? Otherwise, you're just stressing for nothing.
Pulling out works - but only better than not pulling out. First, there is always the possibility of leakage - especially if you go at it a second time, unless he's cleaned up really well and had a good pee. There's also the theory that some sperm leaks into the pre-lubrication he secretes. (pre-***).
The official stat is that it's about 60% to 80% effective - that means that couples who use only that technique for a year, 20% to 40% will get pregnant - slightly better than nothing. (as opposed to pills, 99% effective.) But, this includes "oops", getting drunk, losing control, being too sleepy, and everything else that can go wrong.
Secondly, depends if you trust him. Guys that plan ahead, want to make something of themselves, have college plans, etc. may be trustable - they don't want 18 years of support payments. Guys planning a career of minimum wage, probably aren't too worried. some guys are jerks, and love is blind. Some guys are careless. It's all up to him. If he had a little "oops" would he have told you?
Finally, it only takes one time - but usually, it takes a while to get pregnant. Couples who have regular sex aren't considered to have a medical problem with fertility unless they've tried 6 months to a year and still not conceived.
So don't worry if there's no valid reason.
2006-12-30 13:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same as the girl above me. I'm pregnant and he pulled out. So if you really think you are take a test to make sure. It's the only way you'll know for sure without driving yourself crazy.
2006-12-30 21:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by lahaunna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anytime you are unsure take a test. The pull out method is not reliable at all, there is pre-*** on hie penis that contains sperm. If you miss a period be scared!! Untill then just be carefull as to what you do. Next time if you dont have a condom dont have intercourse.... do oral or something
good luck and happy new year
2006-12-30 21:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by Chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was 19 when my boyfriend at the time told me they was no chance of me getting pregnant with the pullout method (i was naive) and long story short my daughter is now three and a half the one thing i learned was never trust anybody with ur body if u want something not to happen prevent it the right safe way
2006-12-30 21:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by ???? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's possible. don't know what the chances are of getting preggo while pulling out versus leaving it in, but there is a possibility. keep using condoms or don't have sex. you should get a pregnancy test to make sure.
2006-12-30 21:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pulling out is not a form of birth control, there is still seepage that can cause pregnancy.
2006-12-30 21:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by lilly_rose_starphase 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess it's always a possibility with no birth control.Try taking a test.How long has it been since your last period?
2006-12-30 21:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by lady2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋