Granted, it depends on the guy. But in general...is that really what you seek? Please be honest...
2006-12-30 13:08:05 · 24 answers · asked by Diesel Weasel 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
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I'm too tired to be asking Qs...
2006-12-30 13:10:59 · update #1
I'm ONLY attracted by intelligent guys. No matter how they look like, intelligence is the only thing that I really consider beautiful!
2006-12-30 13:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Pavic♫ 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I see a guy on the street, and he's hot... *shrugs* I obviously think of the body (of course, I never think of the body for ME... I really just think, "Oohh... I bet he'd be a great bottom for that other hot guy over there" or some variation of that.. hehe... voyeur first and foremost right here!). This IS in general. I'm fine with being more superficial when it comes to people I don't know. Obviously, when I get to know the person, looks don't matter. Personality/mind become the dominating factors (as with my friends).
And yes, it does depend on the guy/girl/etc. (hey, I'm not limited to your hetero box). There are a select few guys whom I like more for their mind than their body. For instance, Trent Reznor (of Nine Inch Nails). I bow down to his sheer genius. Same goes for Maynard Keenan (of Tool).
2006-12-30 21:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
His look first catches my eye, but his mind is what determines if he gets to stay. Doesn't matter how good looking he is, if there is no mental connection he is gone.
However, an ugly man that I already know becomes more attractive if he is funny and likable. Woman are able to look past looks if a man makes us feel right. Men do not do this as well as woman do.
One more thing, woman appreciate effort. If a man is well groomed and well dressed he doesn't have to be gorgeous. I've seen ugly men that I wouldn't mind getting to know because he is so well groomed. And I've seen men who are not bad looking, but I wouldn't give them the time of day because they dress like slobs. Men, If your listening stop wearing sneakers and white socks with everything. You look ridiculous and give the impression that you don't care about yourself. This is not attractive.
2006-12-30 21:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by nikole s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! absolutely not!
You can see whether or not there is ANY ATTRACTION whatso~Ever, with your eyes. There must be SOME amount of attraction, how~Ever small, in order to ever find out if there is a mind to be attracted to. BE HONEST LADIES! (some people you simply will NOT bother with) But a Small attraction physically can grow HUGE according to the mind and soul of a person.
2006-12-30 22:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by the23FireKeep 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly. . .there has to be something there physically. However, I have found that I am intrinsically more attracted to men who are stimulating mentally. It's more erotic. . .there's more play. A man can be physically attractive and have little or no character. . .which in turn makes him unattractive.
Or. . .a man can be somewhat attractive, yet very intelligent, which makes him more attractive.
Physical looks can only go so far, but a great mind knows no bounds.
2006-12-30 22:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by YuckItUp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY 100% YES, YES, YES
I CAN HONESTLY TELL YOU THAT!
What's the point of wasting energy on somebody who looks like Brad Pitt, if, when he opens his mouth to speak, he sounds like Mike Tyson? I mean...sure, given the opportunity, I would jump on Richie Sambora and not move until he found religion...BUT...Richie Sambora has shown himself to be not only sexy as all get out, but also intelligent, funny, a loving father, and extremely talented. Finding a Richie Sambora would be lovely, and unlikely in the real world. Real guys who can form coherent sentences that are longer than four words, and contain subject matter other than cars, killing deer, sports and the size of women's breasts, turn me on. The only thing about looks that turns me OFF is a nasty mouth or teeth.
2006-12-30 21:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by persnickety1022 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, mind does matter over the body. We like what we hear more so than what we see. We like what one can and is willing to do for us more so than how they look. Anyone can make themself up, you'd be amazed at what you can turn people into. Our sense are slightly different from men, yet the same in some ways.
Krazy Libra
2006-12-30 21:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women will always say they prefer mind... but they don't know consciously what they really want.
I have a spectacular mind... I'm also pretty attractive, pretty interesting and have gorgeous eyes, I'm very funny but I'm not very athletic. Women will always pass me up for a more athletic and much dumber guy. They'll always play the role of saying they are committed to ethics and intelligence... but their actions unfortunately speak to their true intentions. Women's genetic programming dominates them, just as it does men. I'm still looking for a woman who values intelligence, ethics, and honesty instead of mindless muscles... I'll probably still be looking for my entire life. That's the truth, plain and simple.
2006-12-30 21:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by KatGuy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am more attracted to someones mind.And as much as some men seem superficial and want to date a Pam Anderson look a like,they are the same way.
2006-12-30 22:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by Celebrity girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the guy and me have to be comparable, and what I like can be different from what woman like
He has to be honest, hard worker, not a drinker(except socially), he has to love kids and be good to them since I am a mother of 3,he has to be clean and organized with his stuff, he has to have a good hygiene,but honesty is the main key for me, he has to have the same values that I do, and I do not have any preference in colour or religious background,as long as he is respectful.
2006-12-30 21:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋