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I am 5'7", 145 pounds now (120 when I got pregs), and 8 months pregnant (and single).
I am asking, because this guy and I had a physical thing going on throughout my pregnancy. I haven't seen him in a month and am curious if there is still a chance he'll think I am attractive when I run into him again in a week or two. I haven't gained a lot of weight (25 pounds) but my belly is of course big. Last time I saw him, was right after he stood me up, and was acting kind of funny, but he did say he was atracted to me and still thought I was cute. Neither one of us wants a relationship, and he knows I just want to have fun, we have great physical chemistry, no strings attached.
If you were a guy in this situation, would you come back for more, even though the girl was pregnant, but still a pretty girl who will obviously still be thin and attractive after delivery? Remember, no strings attached, just making out and fooling around....

2006-12-30 12:46:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

19 answers

I would go back for more even if you were pregnant and there were strings attached. A connection between two people be it physically or emotionally is great. You have nothing to worry about. '-)

2006-12-30 12:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No because I am not the kind to fool around with loose women. A guy who does would more than likely come back for more but he would not take on the responsibility of the child you are carrying. He would not want you to press that responsibility on him. And he might not come back for the very reason you ARE pregnant. Most men avoid them issue of a child all-together.

2006-12-30 12:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0 0

Guys differ in their opinion on this. Some guys - all they can do is imagine the little baby in there, so sex is almost completely out of the question (except perhaps maybe from behind).

Other guys like it.

From 7 months to near delivery, there is quite a bit of change.

The only way to know is to come out and ask - but it sounds like the 2 of you are using each other so as long as he can get what is in his mind "something better", he won't be calling you.

2006-12-30 12:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

At 145 and 5'7" you would be hooked up right even if you were not pregnant (if the weight was in the right places). Anyway, a woman expecting can be a very attractive woman. Don't be fooled!

2006-12-30 12:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Pregnant women tend to turn me on in a big way. I don't know what the guy's problem is. If it were me I would enjoy the good times but also alot could change after you give birth to your child and since its getting near your due date perhaps he is concerned with the big changes that comes with a new addition to your life.

2006-12-30 12:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0 0

I have one thing to say Hun!! Any guy with knowledge of females knows, a pregnant female is extremely horny!! ;) If he stays away he is missing out. That being said, he probably figures he may be getting himself into more than a sexual relationship. Tell him not to worry bout it and ensure him that.

He may think that a hump buddy is not a good idea

2006-12-30 13:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Maybe it's the fact that your pregnant that scared him off and not the fact that you have a bulging stomach. Most guys are afraid to commit to a woman with a child, or atleast about to have a child.

2006-12-30 12:48:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Uh. most guys see a pregnant woman and think that she is in a meaningful relationship. That IS when MOST people get pregnant.
A pregnant woman who is still sleeping around is just a plaything.

2006-12-30 12:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by woundbyte 4 · 0 0

well, I'm not a guy but I would think from his actions that as you get closer to your delivery date he is feeling obligated to be there. Maybe he is confused because he really cares for you but he is scared.
Remember dear, pregnant women are beautiful.
Keep your glow and shine.

2006-12-30 12:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by Northernlady 2 · 0 0

Heck no! He probably was with you because he knew he couldn't knock you up and you were willing to have sex! Once you spew out that kid he will be a fart in the wind!

2006-12-30 13:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0 0

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