My best friend and I had an argument a couple of days ago. My Mom invited her and her family over for a New Year's Eve party. I want to talk to her, but I am mad at her because she got into a fight with me. Seeing her tommorow will make me even more upset than I am. What should I do?
2006-12-30 12:43:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The best way to get your feelings off your chest is to go ahead and see your friend and talk to her. Be fair about it and let her have her say, too. There are two sides to every fight. If your friendship was a good one to begin with, you both will be able to work it out by seeing each other and talking. Avoiding her will make it harder to talk to her later even if you stop being mad.
Good luck!
2006-12-30 12:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by i smell nice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this bestfriend and we had been friends for 4 years and me and her got in a fist fight and i walked in the house my mom said that she had seen everything and that i should go over 2 the house and get my clothes.I did and when i was leaving i went in the living room and talked 2 her she told me that she was not talking 2 me and i told her 2 just listen.She did and not even 15 minutes after are fight we were friends again.
TRy talking 2 her and if she don't want 2 talk tell her 2 listen and maybe it will help.
2006-12-30 21:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by edh1414 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to stay friends, sometimes you have to put away your pride and really think about whether or not staying forever mad at your friend is worth it in the end. My husband and I have fights, but I usually try to remember our stupid little fights are not worth the overall argument, and I try to seek out solutions, or a way I can forgive him, and even thinking about the situation in his point-of-view to understand and see if possibly I may be at fault. It takes the bigger person to step up and try to work through an argument, and in the end your life will be better for it.
2006-12-30 20:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by JH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"GET OVER IT" if your friends that will not be the first and last argument you will have.You two are friends and nothing should get in the way of your friendship.You are the better person and let her know that she is still alright with you.aiat's a New Year beginning why don't you guys act like you just met as new friends that would be fun.Try it you two might just crack up laughing.But rember though it's hard to find a true friend so you two should try to discuss various issues next time.HEY just put it in 2006 past mistakes..Happy New Year
2006-12-30 20:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up. What went wrong in the fight? You want to start 2007 off on a clean slate. Don't fight with her at the party! (you'll get into a bigger fight with the peeps around u)
2006-12-30 20:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by supercoolgirlholly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont' act like a 2-year-old step up and be the bigger person and apologize for fighting you want to start the year off talking not hating eachother bc it's a bad start for everyone.
2006-12-30 21:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by Wolf_28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a deep breath,have a warm bath and relax.Don't think what your friends did to you that made you upset instead think the good memories you were together.
you better ring her now and be the first one to ask an apology.nobody is perfect, you know.friends are friends forever.you need her as much as she needs you.Don't let the sun go down in your anger.say how sorry you are,Enjoy the Spirit of New Year together.
2006-12-30 20:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by MACRENE PADASDAO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the first move and be cordial. If you value her frienship, tell her you do and that you would like to start the new year off right .If she persists in her attitude, deal with it as best you can since she's coming to your house and make new friends in 2007.
2006-12-30 20:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by johnny cool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two people to get in a arguement. You are at fault too, talk to her about it. Call her beforehand and say that you are sorry for whatever your part of the fight was.
2006-12-30 20:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by girlshadow212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. Life is too short to live in conflict with our closest friends. Start over for the New Year and tell her you're sorry.
2006-12-30 20:48:15 · answer #10 · answered by Alexa K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋