She totally wronged me and used me ...controlling, guile with her words and deceptive...I did nothing and she used everything against me...if everything happens for a reason why I'm I taking the brunt of the situation? I know what comes around goes around...when will the truth come out and bite that girl in the a$$?
2006-12-30 12:43:21 · 11 answers · asked by kowalley 5 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
You want an actual date and time? Be patient.
2006-12-30 14:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being the brunt of that situation allowed you to perceive something you might not have otherwise. Ask yourself what that could be. Had you put someone in a similarly compromising (or demeaning) situation? Or taken advantage of someone? Or maybe it didn't happen to you as your karma coming around. Whatever it was, there had to be something in there of value to you. VALUE . . . so stop fretting over the loser who used you. Find what's salvageable from the experience and then look forward to the next day and what it holds. Gee, maybe you'll rescue someone from an unfortunate situation sometime, or somebody saw what you suffered and their conscience was deeply moved.
Often we don't get to know why something happens or what will come of events. Draw upon your faith at those times. If we believe there's a reason (ahem, I do), then chill. We're all going to get what we've got coming! That thought alone keeps me from stressing out over horses' patoots like the gal you mention.
Good luck, take it easy.
2006-12-30 21:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by Zeera 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if someone does you wrong, she must have a negative energy. The only thing I can say is she will never be happy with that kind of attitude. I don't know whether karma will bite her or not as you've expected but for sure, she will never have a happy life with that kind of attitude. Isn't that karma biting her?
2006-12-30 21:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Truth surely comes around but you never know when. It may be in this birth may be in the next. It is also possible that your own Karmic action was repeated to you causing so much of heart burning.If you think deeply you will find that nothing happens by itself.Unless we ourselves generate an action there will never be a reaction
2006-12-30 21:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by Brahmanda 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all, this "what comes around, goes around" (let's call it karma for now) idea of yours is outright wrong. Karma is just an excuse to not carry it out yourself; an excuse for inaction. If you want this girl to get bit in the *** by "truth", you should do it yourself, not wait for someone else to do it. Cause it's just not going to happen.
As with all that crap about lightning strikes and getting bankruptcy for those evil CEOs in stories, those are just stand alone complexes. Coincidences.
Do it yourself, or it'll never happen. If your house got sold by your husband without your knowledge and he ran away, would you just wait for him to be caught?
Inaction is the worst.
2006-12-30 21:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by Roka 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She used you - you let her.
If you don't want to be used or controlled in any way,
just say "NO" I will not be used by you.
I know it is sometimes hard to do - but that's what you have to do,
if you don't like the consequences.
2006-12-31 20:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
karma will come to her but not in the form that you are thinking.she most likey will get away with watever she did to you .but not to worry my friend one day when she isnt expecting it karma will bite her in the butt
2006-12-30 20:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may never know, she could suffer from something she will never tell anyone... but remember karma will find her.
2006-12-30 20:49:59 · answer #8 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its not about what you want or when you want. It just is. I hope you will take comfort in knowing that it will come back to her, just not when it would be convenient for you.
2006-12-30 21:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by jo jo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it will bite her as you forgive her with no conditions. If you hold a resentment, vendetta and judgment it will repeatedly bite you.
2006-12-30 20:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by Oleg B 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋