2006-12-30 12:37:06 · 17 answers · asked by alan dont drink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well if its ur nature that is reserved,,, no problem,,, ur friends understand well if its coz of some tension then talk to ur friends or close person,,, coz its not good to keep tensions or feelings in,,,
so just move on if u have something in,,,
find out ways to be happy... coz its life and u have to enjoy leading it
2006-12-30 16:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me, when i feel lonely i walk in the sea side.take a deep breath, look up in the sky and appreciate the beauty of nature.i sit down for a while and think of the goodness of God in my life.i think of the people i dearly love (family& friends).
when i got home i listen to music.take a nap and have a nice shower.
when you attend parties talk to someone.get to know each other and start a conversation...
if you're alone you have to asess yourself.or maybe you feel lonely because you have problems or something in your mind is bothering you.if this won't help join any activities in your place.or why not take a holiday....so you can relax and refresh your mind.maybe you're just tired.happy new year to you.you better take care of yourself.God bless!
2006-12-30 21:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by MACRENE PADASDAO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're too young like me and can't drink then find one of your friends and talk with his group. Or stick around by your girlfriend/boyfriend. Or if you feel lonely just don't go to the party.
I wish I had a more outgoing personality. Whenever I try to be outgoing I always get shot down and told I'm stupid by one of my friends who also complains I'm too quiet so I'm not entirely sure what to do. I've stopped going to parties.
2006-12-30 20:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I can give is learn to just relax and accept yourself as you are. Many women are very attracted to men who are quiet. One helpful thing is to be a good listener. Really concentrate on what the person is saying. It will probably lead to you wanting to ask a question, and then to more conversation.
2006-12-30 21:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by Szy_snowflake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man,
If you feel lonely even with your friends that means yhey are not your true friends , you can make new friends buy coming out of your reserved nature because life is very small don't waste it please. leave those friends who make you feel lonley .
I am an partially handicapped girl inspite of that i enjoy my life and has many many true friends. go man go talk , enjoy and live life to fullest.
2006-12-30 21:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by unknown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am the same way....i dont want 2 be. sometime ya just wish you had a more outgoing personality dont you? well. hit the bottle....but not hard....just a few sips to get you right for the party scene....you'll liven up fast....that normally works for those of reserved natures.
2006-12-30 20:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by ♰ smooth sailing ♰ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. just drink some of the ice cold beers or take a few shots of the vodka/tequila. You will be outgoing in NO time. Im like that too after some alcohol I feel talkative and im funny.
2006-12-30 20:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by Scumbag 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just take out ur mobile phone and start palying games, or take out ur ipod and listen to music.. hey if ur a reserved nature person , better dont go to parties and all.. u will never survive there... ok just go top of ur apartment terrus and start counting stars okkk..!!!
2006-12-31 00:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by shivaremo_vijayawada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the problem i have also, and i m also looking for the solution but i think it will be all right by the time . after all, time is the greatest healer or the solution for every problem so just wait for the time that will come o you when u will feel like u want to feel.
2006-12-31 00:26:14 · answer #9 · answered by btiger0101@yahoo.co.in 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you don't drink either (as your name suggests) take a long solitary walk on a road with few people and let your imagination run free.
2006-12-31 03:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋