I'm a pretty 32 year old lady with a wonerful husband and with 3 kids and we are adopting 3 more.MY problem is i don't get along with girls very well and that seams to be all the friends i have is girls.I use to hang out with them untill they needed this and they needed that and i gave it to them they asked to borrow a couple hundred and it was in there pockets in 2 hours .baby sitting for a friend tht i had known for 17 years i watched her 2 kids for 2 months and i guess it was free and i only charged for 1 child and it was only about $20 a week,and she's the one that quite calling me i guess i did something wrong.
i don't know why my friend times 3 are doing this.can someone tell me what i am doing wrong?I thought i was helping friends,or is it i'm tring to help the wrong people.Only thing i want is a friend to trust.Also should i find on the net thats a guy that only wants to be friends.NEEDING A FRIEND IN IDAHO
2006-12-30 12:27:50 · 4 answers · asked by Dawn l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are too good for your own good. You need to say no. Best way to ruin a friendship is to let none pay you and none pay back people use you. If they were really your friend , they would do better by you. You need new friends, let the others go. As for a guy off the internet, think of your husbands feelings, is okay if he found a lady friend on the internet. Get involved with parents of your childrens friends, makes good close friendships. Thanks for taking 3 more children that probably need a good home. With all them children, you have friends , the children.
2006-12-30 12:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No leave the guys alone on the net ,to dangerous for your children now that everyone knows you have them .
Ask your friends to tell you whats wrong .
Perhaps it is how you act around their husbands ?
2006-12-30 20:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your "friends" were there to just get a handout. Then they really weren't your friends. Just be patient...it'll come. Now I'm a paramedic in Iraq, and love making new friends. Just send me a message. Keep in mind that I'm 9 hours ahead of central US time, so it may be until tomorrow when I respond. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-30 20:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just users. You need to be open to meeting different sorts of women from different walks of life.
2006-12-30 20:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by Bonzai Betty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋