My boyfriend broke up with me on Christmas Eve and my bestfriend is having a party but I am not invited because her controlling boyfriend hates me...so what should I do for the holiday? I feel so alone and horrible but I deserve to go out and have fun too!
2006-12-30 12:05:50 · 18 answers · asked by LenaRose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh and I am in a very small town in KY
2006-12-30 12:09:30 · update #1
Yep -- go out and have fun. Last year I had recently moved and had no friends to hang with. I went -- by myself -- to a local bar, and ended up partying with a crowd who all worked together. After they left I sat down with two nice ladies and got two kisses at midnight. Just dress nice, smile a lot and be confident. I will bet good money you'll have a great time!
2006-12-30 12:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by JoeH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you're bummed out, but make this a good evening. Is everyone you know going to this party? I'm sure there are others that are not, call them and invite a few over, rent some movies, get some pizzas, etc. If no one is available (it is short notice), then plan something for yourself, phone someone long distance you haven't talked to in a while, have a beauty night:do your hair and nails, send out some emails, if some of your computer friends are also alone, you could have a cyber party on your 360 page. There are lots of alternatives, just don't sit alone and mope. And, when people ask you , you tell them you had a blast, no pity party for you!
2006-12-31 06:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by mightymite1957 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have already started a pity party, and they are never any fun, so get off your butt, and go and volunteer at a seniors home , or if they have it a place for the homeless, and there is not a town in the world that doesn't have an elderly person that wouldn't like some company, remember that if you rely on some one or something to make you happy you are going to be in for a long miserable life, be of service to others and you will serve yourself
2006-12-30 12:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey screw those people........sounds like you need to find some new friends......nothing wrong with being alone, gives you time to think, just enjoy the quite, play some of your favorite music, play on the internet.....go to sleep early because the next day is a whole new year and you are going to get off to a good start, and in a short time period you will have a new boyfriend.......ok here is an idea........there is probably someone you know that you think is nice, but maybe he is a little shy and is afraid to ask you out......so what you do is just ask him to go out for pizza or something like that.......you can do it, just send him an email or write him a note, and soon enough you will forget about that last boyfriend and hopefully you will make a new friend.......don't sit around and feel sorry for yourself, because if you do, you will be the only one feeling sorry for you........make a game plan and go for it.....and have a great 2007!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-30 14:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by besthusbandever 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find out if the city is celebrating with a countdown party for all residents. If yes, go have some fun!
2006-12-30 12:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever let how other people think of you determine how you feel.
How you feel about yourself comes from your heart and not whether some ****** guy wants you at his or her party, which from the sounds of it, will probably suck anyways.
Do what YOU want to do, don't just decide that you need to be where it's at in order to be cool.
Learn now that real fun comes from doing what you really want to do and not how others want you to act...
2006-12-30 13:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by nostradamus02012 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes u do deserve to be happy too what a shitty day to break up with you if u want u can talk to me im not doing nothing tomorrow night so if u want to talk email me and ill give u my number and we can get to know each other i know it sounds lame but im a nice guy who just got out of a shitty relationship too so the balls in your court if u want to play lol ty
2006-12-30 12:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by tom d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with other friends, or even have your own party, even if your the only one that shows up.
2006-12-30 12:08:48 · answer #8 · answered by mister 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to go out, go out. There's always something happening. Grab your local free entertainment paper and find a club or event.
2006-12-30 12:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm... same here... im spending my new years eve alone. but not bcuz of the same reason as you... my parents have work and they wont even let me come with my friends to new york city to watch the fireworks. and its only like an hour away from where i live. anyways... what i was planning was just watch the fireworks from tv and like cook myself something good. well anyways... happy new years.
2006-12-30 12:10:12 · answer #10 · answered by xxazaleanne 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋