What is my gender preference?

Question

I am only attracted to very girly boys (not transvestites, just thin guys with girlish looks and hairstyles, sometimes even wear eyeliner.... <3)

One time I even fell head over heels for I guy who i thought was a girl at first... you can only imagine how confused I was.

I have never fallen for a girl however I love drawing girls in sexy outfits, it really turns me on.... am I bisexual or is this just a phase? Or do lots of artists do this?

I also pretend to be a boy on myspace.


But at the same time, I am very boy crazy and can't stop thinking about boys, I get crushes on them all the time. I am also interested in femenine things like makeup and clothes, so.... yeah, I am confused. :\

I have had a couple dreams where I am a boy and start making out with a girl, but they were always characters from stories I've written in real life. Dunno if that'll help...

Yes, I am very attracted to emo boys.

I am 13, and his has only been happening recently.

Answer 1

I don't know what you believe in but maybe you were a boy in a past life and that's why you are attracted to girly guys.

Answer 2

Gender Preference - see "Gender identity disorder" or Gender Bias.

Sexual Orientation or Sexual Preference - What Sex you like or love.

Two totally different things, PLEASE LOOK IT UP ON THE INTERNET! DANG, that's what Yahoo! is for!

The term sexual preference encompasses heterosexual, homosexual, and bisexual desire. It was used in the 20th century by gay rights advocates who sought to promote the view that each person should have the right to seek out the partner they prefer, whether of the opposite sex, the same sex, or both sexes.

Later, gay rights advocates preferred the term sexual orientation to avoid the connotation that homosexuality and heterosexuality were matters of "preference" or lifestyle choices, since they viewed them as inherent and unchangeable (Since it became commonly, yet not universally, believed among them that homosexuality was something one is born with).

"Sexual orientation" is the term recommended by the Associated Press stylebook when used in print.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_preference

Answer 3

Will the correct answer make you feel more comfortable with yourself? IMHO, you need not worry so much about this "label" or designation. You know what you like, that's all that matters. The only thing having an answer will do is make you more at ease when answering to someone else.

Answer 4

You are confused because you are only 13. It is normal to ahve mixed feelings at this age. Give it a little time and you will figure things out on you own.

Answer 5

Sounds like you're interested in boys, but curious about girls. It's perfectly normal.

Answer 6

It sounds to me like you are into the "emo" kind of guy. They are very androgynous in looks and clothing, and are really sensitive.

Personally, I say go for what you like, doesn't matter who or what they are. Emotion is emotion, no matter what is under the clothes.

Answer 7

Well. I would have to tell you what I hear you telling me. I I would imagine you finding what you want and he will do what you ask him.to do. Have a nice time>

Answer 8

I think your gender preference is boys

Answer 9

All perfectly natural. You're straight - probably

Answer 10

how old are you? if your young your just going through normal teenage **** if not maybe theres something deeper fueling it how long has this been going on?