im better at gymnastics and climbing the rope and she too kind and i wanna be better than my friend and fit in woth clique so see can be jealous of me . and she likes boys and act better than me . plz help
2006-12-30 12:02:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why dont you just be yourself and not worry about her. She sounds like a snot, so do you really want to be a super snot? Because thats what youre aiming for.
Its better to be yourself then to spend your life trying to impress people who in the long run really dont care. It's also way less stress.
2006-12-30 12:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Why don't you just be yourself each individual will always have something that they are better than the next person in. Don't waste your time trying to make your friend jealous of you besides how do you know she's not already jealous of you?(you don't cause she would never tell you, just like you wouldn't tell her that your jealous of her and asking how you can be better)
Take care and have a wonderful new year
2006-12-30 20:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by ssgtmommy01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My do you want to compete with someone else? Is there some sort of advantage to this? Why don't you just be yourself and forget about competing with someone. Life is not a game and no one is keeping score. Be yourself and you will be just fine. You will get your share of boys and they may very well be better than the ones your friend gets. But does it really matter? Stop competing and live your life as best you can helping others whenever and wherever you can.
2006-12-30 20:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No two persons are the same. You have your credits and your friend has hers. Don't overdo and tried yourself out. At the end of the day you may be the one losing out. What you're good at may not be what your friend is good at so look at things in perspective. Instead, try to compliment each other.
2006-12-30 20:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HUN I DON'T THINK JEALOUSY IS NOT A GOOD THING I THINK YOU NEED TO WORRY ABOUT GETTING BETTER FOR YOUR OWN GOOD RATHER TO MAKE SOMEONE ELSE JEALOUS AND IF YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE ALREADY BETTER WHY ARE YOU ASKING US ABOUT IT ............SPEND MORE TIME STUDYING RATHER THEN TRYING TO FIT IN WITH YOUR FRIENDS AND IF THE ARE YOUR TRUE FRIENDS THEN THEY WOULD LIKE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE NOW GOOD LUCK AND DON'T MAKE YOUR LIFE A COMPETITION WITH OTHERS YOU WILL NEVER GET ANYWHERE BECAUSE YOU WILL ALWAYS FEEL LIKE YOU ARE NEVER GOOD ENOUGH
2006-12-30 20:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by sjb_sparkles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This girl isn't your friend, or you wouldn't feel this way. YOu should start a bunch of gossip about her in a way she won't find out. If you have a brother, pay him to be suave and seduce her or at least get her to like him; than have him dump her and make up all kinds of stuff. Then have an affair with her dad, and reveal it to her mom.
2006-12-30 20:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by jim w 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
That is NOT the answer to fitting in. You need to be yourself and find people that you DO fit in with.
2006-12-30 20:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by some chick 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You'll never be better than your friend, You're a very shallow person!
Grow-Up! Get over yourself.
2006-12-30 20:05:45 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dude, she's your friend! Chill! How about you be you, and let your friend be her. If you wanna make your "friend" jealous, then that makes this friendship a total bust.
2006-12-30 20:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by simpleplanfan<3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, when you try to be better than someone else then you only get worse.
2006-12-30 20:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by Engel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋