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well my ex and broke 1.5 yrs ago and still love her with all my heart and soul and do not know what to do.Just to give you a little history we where each other's first and have dated on and off for 10 yrs she has 2 children with others and 1 with me now 12 the others are 22 and 16 all consider me dad and there dad's are not around at all we where together for 13 yrs.we still love each other and talk everyday and see each other atleast 3 times a week.but i broke the trust with her by lieing and my family did some terrible things to her after the break up and have cut my family out of my life becouse of it .She say's she is trying to figure her self out and i do alot of stuff for her still from finacial to helping around the house.I just can not get her out of my head and let her go. We have always been drown to each other and just do not know what to do.I have tried to make up for what i did and better my self as a person see somebody for my self and always still drown back to her.

2006-12-30 11:50:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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give her some time to be without you, maybe she will find that she actually misses you if you were not around all of the time. it is obvious that you love her and you seem like a very responsible man, but after a year and a half she already knows if she can trust you or not. my point is why should she want you back when she already has you...trust me she knows that too. good luck, i hope things work out for you.

2006-12-30 12:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by kim 2 · 2 0

If you want her back you need to win her attraction to you back and everything else will follow. This is a time to come across strong and capable not turn to mush. Get you life together. Dress well. Be financially responsible. Don't say things... do things. You clearly want to rebuild this relationship so you need to sell yourself again. Being there is good but a sudden emotional retraction is very powerful. Cut off communication for a week under the guise you need time to think and you will be back together by the weekend. Make sure you treat her right this time. All the best.

2006-12-30 20:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by Pilgrim 4 · 1 0

well as you have figured out the hard way you broke the one thing that is the most important in a relationship and is the hardest thing to gain back all i can say is just give her time and tell her how your feeling and ask her for another chance if she feels the same way she probably will but you are still going to have to prove to her that you are sorry for whatever it is that you lied about and that she can trust you like i said just sit down with her and tell her your feelings and let her know that you have tried changing and have and that all you think about is her
i hope that everything works out for you two good luck

2006-12-30 20:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0 0

well that is a hard one obvousley you love her but you need to find out if she feels the same about you it is hard to forgive some things but if you two really love each other then you will make it put yourself in her shoes how would you want her to make it up to you what would it take for you to know that she really loves you and would never betray your trust again

2006-12-30 19:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by JENN 1 · 0 0

It's wonderful that the two of you still keep in touch, both for yourselves and for the children. Keep doing what you're doing. Nothing has to happen right away-give her time & space to do what she feels she has to do. Just be there for her. I wish you all the best.

2006-12-30 20:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 0 0

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