i reconnected with my old high school bf tim after my divorce.tim is everything my ex was not.tim treats me with respect,brags about me to everyone to the point its embarrassing.he allways tells me one liners like "i can't believe its you" "your my soal mate" and allways sends me cards,letters,gifts saying how much he loves me.his family tells me he talks about me all the time.when i ask what do u want to do he always says being with u is all i want so i'll do what ever u want.well one night after i left tim's house half way home i realized i forgot my purse and turned around to get it.when i pulled up i saw his neighbor sue going in his place.then the lights went out and i think u know the rest!i tryed calling his cell no answer.i asked him the next day about my call and he lied and said he went to bed and did not hear it.my bro is a PI and i had him check tim out.tim has been cheating on me with not 1 but 2 other people since we started dating 6 mons ago.when i leave they come over.
2006-12-30 11:41:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
men can you tell me why tim would cheat on me when he seems so happy to be with me?
2006-12-30 11:42:10 · update #1
didnt you learn anything from prior relationships, boot his @$$, move on. sorry about your hurt feelings but that is life.
He's a D_IC_K not your fault, move on
learn. be more cautious of the boy/s you hook up with.
2006-12-30 11:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by bubbles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why he cheated is very simple - he doesn't think you are the one.
I hate to tell you but the guy is a player. You were an easy target and his one liners are used on everyone. There is always a danger period of rebound infatuation after a split and some preditors live for it. You need to walk away from this fast and don't waste your life finding everything out. A six month relationship that caused so much pain is just not worth it. Use it as a lesson to find a man with the qualities you liked in this guy but next time take it a little slower and look for integrity as well. If you must have a little revenge...tell his family what a sweet turd he is - that should do it. All the best in life.
2006-12-30 11:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by Pilgrim 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tim is observed as a participant. he's not something extra no longer something much less. gamers will say and do something to maintain you from understanding what they're. regrettably many women folk have come for the time of those arseholes who finally end up inflicting numerous harm. The upside is he's basically cheating with 2 women folk. Mine exchange into cheating with 9 women folk and a million guy. Yeah i exchange into truly chuffed when I found out. He additionally instructed me we've been soul buddies and he needed no-one yet me. good success i'm hoping you do no longer harm too plenty.
2016-12-31 08:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a man, but I can tell you he's a player. Don't blind yourself or think that you can change him. If he's lying to you, which he is, you're better off breaking it off with him rather than playing a fool for him. There is no good excuse for what he's doing and if you let him get away with it by staying with him, he will continue. He wasted his chance to be with you again. Respect yourself enough to expect more from the person you give your love to. Words are only words. Actions speak louder.
2006-12-30 11:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a man for you who knows why they do the stuff they do - and no im not saying every guy is like that- maybe he just wants the rush of trying not to get caught or maybe he doesnt feel satisfied with you either way you shoulnt stay with him find someone else that is going to treat you right and not lie and cheat on you
good luck on the search
2006-12-30 12:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you're asking only the men, but I must say that: 1. He's a man and all men are dogs (keep that in the back of your mind and it'll cushion you're heart--just in case) Doesn't necessarily mean that it's true, but for most it is. 2. Men want their cake and eat it to happy or not unless he is very disciplined. All you can do is put a little trust in them...live your life to the fullest....and hope for the best.
2006-12-30 11:49:36 · answer #6 · answered by Pretti Poodle 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The man of your dreams cheats on you? You should rephrase that question and also use spell check. He is cheating on you because he can. You are letting him. If you don't want to be treated that way, then leave him. If you don't, you are co-dependent. Look it up.
2006-12-30 11:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by Rick R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a man but I think I can help. Nothing is ever perfect.... sorry but it is true. It happens to us sometimes. Some people do find their "Mr. Right" but others only find jerks. My opinion is to dump him and go out with your friends..... or go meet new friends. I'm sorry. Good luck.
2006-12-30 11:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by a.rose19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him its a small taste of what is yet to come liars cheaters what more do you want.He has made his true feelings known by his actions Don't give his empty words another thought more Good luck, you will recover
2006-12-30 12:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men like challenges that his human nature they want to work at it if not they get bored and try something that fights back
2006-12-30 11:50:25 · answer #10 · answered by JENN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋