Bi or Strait? Cuz Sometimes I See Myself With A Girl And Sometimes I Don´t. Please Help.
2006-12-30 11:33:16 · 14 answers · asked by Milly 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Milly don't fall into the label thing. It doesn't matter if you are gay, straight or bisexual. Don't stress this question. Just enjoy life and love how you love in a healthy, safe way.
2006-12-30 11:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're having this much confusion, it's time to just back up and think about what you really want. Don't let anyone push you into putting a label on yourself if you're not ready. Stop worrying about it. If you're comfortable with a guy, date a guy. When you're in the mood for a woman, date a woman. If you're straight, you won't have any doubt where your sexual feelings lie. If you're bi, the line is very fluid, some times you want one thing, some times you want another.
2006-12-30 19:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unattached just Date!! Go out with girls, go out with guys. I think it's normal to have questions about sexuality since is such a big part of who we are. Be happy, that's the biggest thing. And if you are bi, be honest with your partners. I have several friends who are bi and extremely happily married. And I have many friends who are gay and lesbians. You are who you are and the only way to find out exactly what you want is to get out there and meet people!!!
Good luck!!!!
2006-12-30 19:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by lil_hem_n_va 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult to say. I think that (for women) if you prefer men romantically, and find them attractive and want to be with them, but you also find women attractive (but don't so much want to be with them romantically), then you might be bi. I think that if you're a lesbian, you don't find men attractive as women, and you'd prefer to be romantically involved with a woman.
Who knows? There isn't really a strong definition of what being bisexual is.
2006-12-30 19:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by blizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please sweetie don't fall in that trap of Who i am is defined by my sexual acts. Homosexuality, Bi sexuality Heterosexuality are defined as sexual acts, not who we are but rather what we did,or do. Homo sexuality is not normal and ther really is no such thing as Bi sexuali unless you are having a threesome with mixed sexes(male and female).Your DNA says what sex you are what sex act you do describes how you did it IE. male/male female/female. Remember that the sex act by design is for procreating the species and, if it does not procreate the species nature will naturally get rid of it.If it is not working to the design of nature in keeping itself going , nature will work to rid itself of useless behavior. You don;t need to act on all of your temptations
and curiosities. Just because you think of these things does not imply that you are inclined to act homosexual.They are just thoughts. WE need not act on these desires or thoughts and in fact should choose not to. God will bless you with wisdom for this.
2006-12-30 19:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by MissCherokee 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to decide if this is just a strange fantasy or curiousity, or if you are seriously deep down interested in being with a woman.
think about the three angles of sexuality.. do you want to be sexually involved with a woman? do you want to be romantically involved? and do you think about closeness, intimacy and the entire platonic side of things? and can you see all three of them together?
2006-12-30 19:43:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself ample time to mature and grow before you make any decisions or act out an impulse.
2006-12-30 19:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by thespiansoup 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay well that's kind of diffucult to answer because how OFTEN do you see yourself with a girl? Just "sometimes"? For the most part, I think you are Strait. "Sometimes" isn't that much. Yeah....PLEASE stick with stait, mmmkay? Becauase Bi/Lesibian is GROSS. (No offence...)
2006-12-30 19:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by ~*CaTcHaFaLliNgStAr*~ 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
First you should love yourself. If you a female, you should be with a guy. Now, when you cross over with the curiosity, you're not thinking correctly. Women for man, man for women. Keep it like this, and the world will be better. Don't be confused like a lot of women. Consider reading the Bible, this is an old age question. The Bible is the map of life, try it, and you will travel on roads of success.
2006-12-30 19:38:25 · answer #9 · answered by ZEBUCORE 5 · 1⤊ 5⤋
I'm a tomboi, so i see myself with women.
2006-12-30 20:02:43 · answer #10 · answered by ~Twisted Sister~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋