Me and my friends J and J and D are really good friends and these two girls K and L came into our group of friends this year and ever since the start of the school year J and J have only been doin things with K and L and me and D are being left out im sick of J and J making my cry should i let J and J and k and L go and be friends with out me
2006-12-30 11:03:57 · 19 answers · asked by Dana o :-) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you have a solid friendship that is worth fixing, then you should address your concerns to them. If you let it continue to bother you without saying something now, you are bound to say things out of hurtful spite. I am 33 years old and still experience these things with friends. I meet a lot of people through work, it isn't that I don't like hanging out with my friends I have now, it is just that different people have different things in common and a change of pace is nice. If you are honest, it is your best bet and if it doesn't work out YOU know you at least tried.
2006-12-30 11:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by Brownie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I finally figured it ou what you are trying to say. ( I think) ; If they were really such good friends of yours to begin with, 'K' and 'L' would no way have been able to persuade 'J' , 'J' and 'D' to leave you out . I know it hurts a lot when we suddenly seem to lose a friend and stand by and don't really know why they are doing that . But don't you think that a good friend would stay with you no matter who joined up ? I hope you will see that there are loads of gals out there ready to be your buddies . Don't waste your precious time on them and dry your tears . They are not worth it . They say 'if' whithin an entire lifetime we have only one true friend, we are very lucky . So get busy and put on some cool duds and smile . A new friend is just around the corner waiting for your terrific company to share ! LOL .
2006-12-30 11:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You should remain friends with them unless they are outwardly being mean to you. I think friends change alot throughout life...but it's important to try to keep them as friends....even if it's not as close as you would like. Every friend takes a backseat to a new friend every now and then.....but, usually things return back to normal when the newness wears off. Good Luck.
2006-12-30 11:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to tell you this but chances are that you are not going to be best friends with any of these ppl in 5 years so if you drop them now it will be less painful for everyone. dont be rude about it just dont seek them out, and make it known that your feelings are hurt and you are not willing to be hurt so you are ending the friedship. if they still want to be your friend they will make more of an effort after this.
2006-12-30 11:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by leavelil2imagine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them how you feel! you and D should kind of make up a thing.. they obv. aren't your real friends if they're ditching you for J and J! you should focus on your studies but if this is really making you cry and stuff, find a way to get even. You know..become popular and stuff and like MAKE them miss you.
2006-12-30 11:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by Besch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well seems like your friend have turned against you for some reason wonder if K and L had anything to do with it. But if I was you I would get new friends and let those idiots to themselves. you don't need them. I can be your friend.
2006-12-30 11:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
D is the only real friend you have here....move on and make some new friends and forget the others
2006-12-30 11:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by Shelly B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a good idea to me. Just let them go and move on.
2006-12-30 11:06:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you simply just need to tell them that you feel left out and you want to know whats going on.
2006-12-30 11:07:27 · answer #9 · answered by Englishchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt let grlz *** in the way of ur friend ship obviously k/ l like j / j so let them b and find others
2006-12-30 11:07:12 · answer #10 · answered by long hair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋