I spent a few months in a relationship where my and ex-gf were arguing a lot in terms of beliefs that contradicted each other ...I think my my convictions are polluted right now because, I come to accept some of hers ..But, when I was in the middle of the process in finding a bridge or accepting a great amount of her belief, she left me for someone else , leaving in total confusion ... no, I am no longer convinced of what I was, neither I am not really motivated now to try to join her belief (because I loved her , I was willing to do that, but it was a great mistake from me...) ...I am in the total state of doubt and confusion ...what can I do to retrieve my personality and beliefs back now...?
2006-12-30 11:03:50 · 5 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
every experience changes the perspective of all the ones before it. You argued because there had to be someone who is right and therefore someone who is wrong. I think through these discussions with her, you have come to doubt what you believed. that actually is quite normal. if we didn't question anything... then nothing would change.
My question for you is what feels right? Where are you headed with what you've got (in your head or on your back) ? What would you change? harm no one and go for it.
2006-12-30 11:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by Eric E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must be heard on you. But check this. When you get to believe something there must be some substance to it. Try to examine that bridge of beliefs that you created. What are it elements? See how much of it you still would uphold as true today. It is clear that when you were building that bridge that you were motivated by much of your feelings for that girl. Now that she has left and you are questioning that whole bridge thing means that you still have a core belief system; your previous personality and beliefs are still there, you just need to give yourself some time to rediscover yourself. Focus on what is positive in your life right now. Move on!
2006-12-30 11:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt like this for all of my toddlers and as I became older my discomfort with my physique, and it is loss of the suitable factors, became so undesirable that i could no longer stand in my very own way. I on no account had to be transgender, yet i'm. you're able to get to a element the place you may additionally no longer help it, it is the two bypass the place you're ideas is finest you or bypass loopy. I doubt it. the perfect subject I did however, and that i propose, is get some counseling.. in case you could no longer arise with the money for it attempt extremely some the colleges, they provide decreased expenses so there scholars can get prepare. each and every so often it makes you experience much less loopy to easily confer with somebody whose in basic terms job is to pay attention.
2016-11-25 01:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in your shoes. if you were willing to accept her beliefs, yours arnt very strong. no one is 100% right, alltho they think they are. time to take a look around. maybe this was a good thing. everyone needs to re-evaluate themselves from time to time. why go back when you can go forward?
2006-12-30 11:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by chris l 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
search inside yourself. your answers are there, at least in terms of where you might like to go, and where you don't want to go. determine those things and the rest will fall into place
2006-12-30 11:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by free thinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋