My ex and I are from the same small town...well we were both there for the christmas holiday..he brought his wife I was alone.
I am still close with his sister, besides I took my daughter and my grandkids over to my ex sister-n-law home to stay for the holidays.
I went there to check on one of my grandchild because my daughter had call and said one of them were sick, me not knowing that my ex and his wife would be there so early in the morning( they were in an hotel) I stop by on my way to my fathers house. Well he (my ex) saw me ..I was looking good....after I left I found out he was quiet for the rest of the day...he would not talk to anyone.....now why would he react like this if he has moved on with someone else....
2006-12-30 10:57:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
some of you got the wrong impression...I do not want my ex back or wishing of anything with him....I had every right to be at his sister, because she invited me. when I was involved with someone ..he had alot to say...now he was dumb founded.....
2006-12-30 11:14:59 · update #1
Because you want him to?
2006-12-30 10:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by teef_au 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he just doesn't like you. There isn't anything wrong with visiting your former sister in law.
Everytime I see my ex, i just feel like i want to puke, it brings up bad memories and I feel sorta down the rest of the day.
My ex was a drunk, druggie, and a cheater. We didn't have any kids together, were only married 2 years, but even now 10 years later it makes me sick to see or even hear anything about her.
2006-12-30 12:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok before everything... If he unquestionably enjoyed u...the place could he be? definately not in another womans mattress.. im sorry i dont evaluate sound asleep with yet another lady, breaking wedding ceremony vows.. crushing your heart, and so directly to "tutor a factor" love.. and that i think of your stupid if u even think of of taking him back at this factor.. flow out.. its not cheating , he breached the marital vows alongside time in the past.. he has no situation "cheating" on you.. so why could u care how he feels.. and dont ignore some human beings would be like " i dont choose u , yet i dont choose all people else to choose u the two" additude.. if he enjoyed u.. if he wanted u.. then he'd be proving it to u.. and if proving his love ability being with yet another lady, then thats purely loopy, he has no concept what actual love is.. and that i cant have faith that u'd even opt to supply him a 2nd probability.. u dont love him.. u love the guy that took wedding ceremony vows to u.. u love the guy that promised to continuously love you, to in no way harm u, and to stand by using u something of your existence.. HES not that guy anymore.. and u be attentive to that, deep down interior u be attentive to that.. its purely stressful good now reason your nonetheless hurting.. and u choose that harm to flow away yet hun.. it wouldnt paintings out.. u'd continuously be questioning whilst and if he replaced into going to try this to u back, u'd be depressing .. flow out.. have exciting.. IF he unquestionably loves u, IF he somewhat has found out the errors he's made, then he could would desire to tutor to u that he's worth of you even questioning of giving him yet another probability, which mean getting faraway from different women human beings , kissing ur azz, living on his own, relationship u back and development back a courting a "new" courting when you consider which you will in no way have what u had with him, so u can purely start up back and not start up the place u left off..
2016-12-11 19:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether you get along with his sister or not , they are no longer your family , move on ; fine for the children but not for you; he has made his choice and now you need to totally move on; let his sister be his sister ; one more step for you to go to leave the relationship behind in the past ; stop wondering about any reaction other than you and your new love.
P.S. whether or not the sister invited you - she has a brother not you - respect and know that your position in that family is changed; move on in all aspects; why care what he thinks, does or says ; have to own it no matter what your words are saying ; you are posting; asking;wasting your time wondering about your ex's actions
2006-12-30 11:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by sml 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There could be many reasons, and some may not have anything to do with you looking good.
He could have been upset that you were invading his space and felt like telling you of but held his thoughs.
Maybe he didn't get what he wanted for christmas.
Maybe he wasn't feeling well.
2006-12-30 11:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by Snicklefritz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm that is an interesting one. My ex seems to be the same way. I guess he may be dissappointed that you are moving on and living life with out him just fine. You go girl!
2006-12-30 10:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by mytm4u 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes men look back in regret for what they lost. When they move on they realize that life still has problems and issues, and sometimes the problems they have with the new chick make the old problems look good. He was probably feeling like he gave up someone of worth.
2006-12-30 11:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by Christine5 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Well, I'm going through a separation myself. My best answer is that he is embarrassed and ashamed. He does not know how to act. He feels humiliated and uncomfortable. This is what I am feeling now. Hope this helps.
2006-12-30 11:03:20 · answer #8 · answered by Rock Basser 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he could have felt uncomfortable seeing u, maybe he is feeling remorseful, maybe his new marriage is not all he expected it to be. we always will remember our ex, we may always love them, and they with us. but the past is the past, and it will always be awkward when we see them again. no way of really knowing what is on his mind, as men are never too open with their feelings.
2006-12-30 12:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he was probably surprised and spent the day wondering what could have been if he'd have stayed with you. people tend to get jealous if they see the person they hated and left did well for themselves.
2006-12-30 11:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by Screaming Banshee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he hasn't moved on. You might have stirred some past memories in him. Sometimes grass isn't always greener on the other side.
His loss, right?
God bless you.
2006-12-30 11:02:54 · answer #11 · answered by Belix 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋