We've been friends for a really long time. A few years. Then the one that I like got to talking, and aparently he likes me to. Then the other is said to have a thing for me, and I dont know what to do withought hurting him.
2006-12-30 10:43:47 · 8 answers · asked by tiktakfrak 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The truth is bitter, but it's better telling the other guy NOW than making him think you like him, he'll be 10 times more upset..
2006-12-30 10:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by Essexguuurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a few things from this.. the one that said that he likes you and that you like is probably the more handsome, outgoing one.. he will not treat you right. the one that did not say anything, is less attractive and not so out there in the social world. this happens a lot. decide what you want. nothing is in cement. if your looking for just dating, take the one your talking to out for a spin. don't commit yourself to anything, and check it out. the one that likes you and is sad, will still be both of your friend because he understands what friendship is. that is if you are more attracted to the one that you like... but I would caution you.. the other guy will not let you down... it's up to you.. all in all, you will still be friends with both. the one you like may cancel himself even out of friendship with you if you date the other guy cause it is an ego thing. so, its up to you, what you want in your life....
good luck!
2006-12-30 10:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by spiseemami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since the other one has never said anything to you directly, just pretend you don't know and go with the first one you like and the one you've talked to about it.
2006-12-30 10:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should be friends wit both bcuz u n the other 1 will split [if u go 2gether] n it might ruin the whole friendship so ya
2006-12-30 11:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by baby_booboo_77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just put yourself in their shoes and then sit each one down and talk to them open & honestly. It would be best for all if you get this out as soon as possible.
Good Luck.
2006-12-30 11:19:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the one who you like. you cant go out with a friend you dont like
2006-12-30 11:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by babii-gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either way someone is going to get hurt... jus be gentle with the situation and maybe it will work out
2006-12-30 10:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Constance♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friends are really your friends, they will support whatever decision you make.
2006-12-30 10:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋