My best friend and I have the same taste in guys. We can tell each other everything. I tell her wut guys i like and she tells me wut guys she likes. Well there were these 2 boys that we both liked, I tried 2 make it so we didn't fight. I asked her which one she liked MOST, she picked the one i liked, but i said she culd have him and i wuld go after the other one. But as i got to like my guy more and more...she did 2. Now she got him to ask her out by saying she wuld commit suicide cuz nobody liked her. Her guy is always working, so we never see him, but now i had 2 find sumone else cuz my best friend stole my crush.......can she still be considerd my BEST friend?
We've been friends since Kindergarten. Now we're in High Skool
2006-12-30 09:36:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is not a good friend. Unlike you, she didn't even consider your feelings.
2006-12-30 09:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by 22sa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your "best friend" needs serious help, especially if she feels the only way she can get a guy is by stealing her friend's crush and then guilting the guy into asking her out. To answer your question, she can still be your best friend because nowhere in the rule book does it say she can't like who you like, however had he been your boyfriend then that would be a different story. But she probably just saved you anyway, because what dumb *** boy dates a girl that says she's going to commit suicide? Drama much?
2006-12-30 17:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by sadiaelena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether she is still your best friend or not depends on you. If you want her as a best friend and can live with what she did then there is no problem. If it bothers you to no end then she is not your best friend. I wouldn't feel bad if some guy stole my girlfriend. If he is my best friend I am not going to let something like that come between us depending on how long we have known each other. You think you should?
2006-12-30 17:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she cannot be trusted. She lied to get a date and went after your guy. Find a new best friend
2006-12-30 17:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by shadouse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not a good friend....4get her......here is a poem:
A true friend never walks away
A true will always stay
A true friend looks out for you
A true friend will guard your secrets
Like a precious gift
A true friend is there for you
To give you a helpful lift
A true friend tries to make you smile
Tries to replace that frown
They may not always succeed
But they rarely let you down
These arms for you are open
This heart for you does care
And when I think you need me
I'll try to always be there
I'll listen to your fears
I promise not to laugh
Comfort your falling tears
I'll make this friendship last
I'll keep you near to my heart
I'll always hold you dear
Even when we're miles apart
Even when you're here
I hope I am to you
Everything you are to me
For the friendship we have
Is a special one indeed.
i hope this is good!! :)
2006-12-30 20:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by Maria; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is weird. If she hurt you very badly and doesn't care, then she's not a very good friend. Even though you've known her since kindergarten, it is very natural for people to go their own ways once they get in highschool.
2006-12-30 17:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule # 1 - friends don't date their best friends guy or girl.Maybe it's time for you to branch out and meet new people and HS is the best time to do it. Good Luck!
2006-12-30 17:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by miss-snoopy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont think guys are worth fighting over i think when it comes to friends its mostly ther fault
2006-12-30 17:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by susette r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! in my opinion it would have been better if you guys would have left both boys alone from the start.
2006-12-30 17:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by ltonyasfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a good friend to her, but she's not treating you the same way. I wouldn't consider her your best friend.
2006-12-30 17:44:29 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋