Personal question about my hubby's problem.?

Question

I'm married since last 6 months. My hubby is smart and healthy. When we have sex he get good erection, but as soon he enters my vagina, he lost it and ejaculate within seconds. But if i do oral sex on him or by hand it takes 2 or 3 minutes and sometimes more. Why it's so. Please suggest some medicine which i can buy. He is too shy to talk about this to anyone or go to doctor.

Thnx for ur answers, byt plz tell me why it happens only when he insert it into my vagina. As i told u, otherwise i saw him taking it hard for as long as 10 mins. Some time my hand start paining during hand job, but he didn't ejaculate.

Last time when i go to medical store to by sanitery pads. I saw some spray named CLIMAX, does it solve my hubby's problem. Please tell me if some one had used it and how to use it?

Answer 1

Best medicine for him is your vagina itself, rather using your lips or hands make him to do more of the vaginal sex ,maybe once or twice he may have same problem but if do it again & again he will be able to control his ejaculation time. You should do more of vaginal sex daily & as many time in a day as you can manage. You will notice after first ejaculation & when he gets erection again do it again he will take more time to ejaculate & so on.

Answer 2

This is a case of premature ejaculation and is normal in males who have an anxiety to please their wives, but end up otherwise. I suppose he knows that a prolonged erection helps him to induce orgasm in you, his wife, and wants to achieve this.
PE can be controlled without medicine, and in fact it is advisable not to use any over the counter pill or cream without consulting a doctor.
You can both try this. When he feels he is going to ejaculate, stop fondling his organ with your hands and ask him to withdraw ; hold the base of his penis tightly, not the sensitive glans or foreskin part. At the same time, let him try to think of things other than sex, so that he would momentarily get distracted from sexual thoughts. He would then lose his erection. After a minute or two, let him resume his thoughts on sex, so that his erection would start. He should then insert his erect penis again in your vagina and continue with his love making. If again he feels like PE, stop and repeat the above procedure. Over a period of time and with practice, he would find that his PE gets controlled, and he would be able to satisfy you with good orgasm.
You both can continue with other foreplay techniques so that the tempo of sexual activity is maintained without PE. However, stop any foreplay when he feels like ejaculating when he is not inside you.
This method no doubt requires patience and understanding of both partners but from your query it seems that you both are determined to find a workable solution. Good luck to you both.

Answer 3

This is only due to his excitement in the first place and inferiority complex in the second place. Just boost his moral esteem and help him out by talking during the act. He is mature enough why should he feel shy to go to a doctor.To build his confidence try using delay spray which is easily available at the chemist shop.

Answer 4

This is a typical case of irritation of male forskin by vaginal H1 factors.sometimes in rare cases their are oversensitive male penis skins that causes this typical problem where male gets full erection in fore play but gets irritated thru certain vaginal chemicals thus loosing its erection.Their is a definite treatment for this problem which includes medications and external applications which remove its oversensitization and thus cause normal erections in coitus. I am a consulting sexologist for 7 years.You can ask any question freely to me at [e-mail]

Answer 5

Honey, first of all he is very immature sexually..so like a little boy when he gets the "candy" he goes crazy!!
Let me tell you something...stop going down on him...whatz going to happen is he is only going to like that...YOUR NEEDS will NEVER be satisfied!! listen to me I have experienced this too many times!!
You have to sex him w/ u on top...that helps to prolong his *****. There are creams and sprays to "desensitize" his body. They r sold next to the condoms.....
Your hands r hurting because it is a "chore" or "job" !! This is not lovemaking!! You know the outcome is no pleasure for you!!
Change the routine TODAY!! Have him pleasure you with his mouth...if he refuses, don't do it to him again!! Make sure you have ecstasy for many nites...or you r setting yourself up for hearache.
hugs from Shayla

Answer 6

Its called premature ejaculation. There are self-help books that will teach you that there are special techniques to hold back from orgasm. If after trying them you still have problems talk to your doctor even if your hubby doesn't come with you. The doctor can give you more info.

Answer 7

It is purely psychological for him. Try Masters and Johnson therapy. It may take about six months to come out of this problem. He should eat fruits like Noni or Goji berry daily.

Answer 8

This is close to normal. Actually ur hubby is geting mentally too excited. Pl tell him to do Pryanama- daily. He has to be strong mentally. When he is mentally strong he will be sexually strong. Enerything depends upon the mental state.
Watch ASTHA Channel at 8.30 pm daily.

Answer 9

try vigra 25 it cost about 6 to 8 dollars a pill at any adult store.. it want make him last but he will be able to come back for more... atleast it dont help my bf with lasting but then again virigara dont either and he is 30 yrs old.. and some times he dont even have to get near it to have a orgasm..so maybe it may help you with your promblem

Answer 10

Sounds like he is nervous....

The diffrent stimulation effects y it doesn't happen orally or handily?

But he should just try to get over it!

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