I had sex for the 1st time... and i ****** up and didnt use protection. it has been 3 days now and i am still in pain. Also im slightly bleeding and itching... i am freaking out.... i dont know what to expect but i dont think this is normal... can someone plz help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?????
2006-12-30 09:13:38 · 13 answers · asked by Jess The Mess 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You sure did. Hey how did you get away with not getting bleeped?
2006-12-30 09:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing for you to do at this point is find a way to sit in some warm water. Take a warm bath (no bubble bath!) in a clean tub, or hold a wet, warm washcloth on your vaginal area a few times a day. You might find that a cool washcloth after the warm helps the area feel better.
Take a warm shower and gently clean the area with a mild soap, rinse very well. If you have some A&D ointment (or even Desitin), apply a tiny bit to your outer vaginal area.
A little bleeding is perfectly normal. The itching may be from healing or from not washing well enough because you're afraid to mess around with that area.
The biggest problem I see for you now is that you could be pregnant. You need to make an appointment with a gyn, as soon as you can, and let him/her examine you to make sure you're not pregnant and get you on some sort of birth control. It's too late for the morning-after pill. You'd better hope you lucked out and didn't get pregnant. Please don't rely on luck after this.
Another huge problem is that you could have gotten a sexually transmitted disease, something as easily curable as syphillis, to something not curable like HPV, or something potentially deadly like HIV . If you're going to have sex, use protection and be responsible. Get the HPV vaccine. You have one life... don't exchange it for irresponsible momentary sex.
2006-12-30 09:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bleeding is normal. However, the itching could be a cause for concern.
If the male ejaculated inside of you the sperm may have just irritated you or it could a sign of some kind of infection. I would go to the doctors to get check out.
2006-12-30 09:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lingering pain could be due to the penis size, if it was large, then you may continue to ache for a couple days. Slight bleeding is also normal. The itching COULD be a concern, depending on whether or not it is accompanied by any rashes or sores. I would show the area to a trusted female friend to determine whether or not a visit to the gyno is necessary.
2006-12-30 09:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by Kim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 01:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok! don't freak out! you probably didn't have enough lubrication while you were having sex and that is probably why it hurts. the blood is normal for your first time. as for the itching, it could be somethng to do with not having lubrication. but you need to go to the doctor or free clinic and get a check up. you could have gotten and STD. sorry but it's true. next time use a condom!!!!!
2006-12-30 09:22:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its it totally normal for you to bleed slightly i did. there is nothing wrong with you. I couldn't pee with out being sore and in pain and i bleed all week barely. it took 4 times before it was even comfortable to have sex. next time just use protection and lubrication. also just take some ibeprofen if your in pain it will help
2006-12-30 09:16:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOOOOOhh. That's bad. I hope your partner didn't have anything because I heard you itch when you have crabs. I think tha bleeding is normal though because it's your first time. The price to pay for sex. As for what to expect I wouldn't know . I'm still a virgin, ( and proud of it!!) :)
2006-12-30 09:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A little irritation and bleeding are normal for first timers, however if it continues for more than a week go see a Dr.
2006-12-30 09:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by Recovery Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like for you to see a Doctor. A lot of times bleeding, pain, and itching are signs of an STD. Please get checked out. http://www.avert.org/std.htm
2006-12-30 09:20:00 · answer #10 · answered by lifeisbeautiful 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋