there is a girl named kasia gora in my grade and she talks behind my back, uses my friends, and tells rumors to my crush. she use to be my friend but now im done with her!!! i cant just let her keep doing all this stuff. the scary part is she whatches porn and masterbates herself. nasty nasty nasty!!! i need people to give her a dirty look every day at lunch like they do to me. Please help.
2006-12-30 09:00:21 · 16 answers · asked by Eliza Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
have you tried asking her why she's doing all of this mean stuff? is there a reason that y'all aren't friends anymore? i would try to talk to her or have a mutual friend talk to her. before you start trying to get revenge try to take care of it the mature way.
also be nice to her; that will make her look bad in the long run if you're the sweet girl and she's the *****. you catch more flies with honey than vinegar... :)
2006-12-30 09:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't waste my time on her. She will ruin her own life soon enough acting like this. As far as what she is saying behind your back, ignore it. Your "REAL" friends know what is true and what isn't. The rest don't matter. She has a lot of growing up to do. In a few yrs. we will be reading something about her here again I'm sure. LOL This will show you are more mature than she is. It will take a little time for people to see "through" her, but it WILL happen. Tell her parents about her watching porn IF YOU CAN PROVE IT BEYOND THE SHADOW OF A DOUBT.. If ya know where she hides her porn flicks or what time she watches it so they can sneak on her and catch her at it that will be revenge enough. If she goes on the net, tell them how to retreive the history from the computer sites she has visited. That oughta piss her off.
2006-12-30 17:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there...wish i could do what i'm about to tell you know. I'm in 6th grade too. I'm having a hard time with this bit**ch too. Worse of all, she's my neighbor. She makes a big deal about everything i do and say. She tells my best friend secrets and when i ask she won't tell me. when i am mean to her back, she trys to turn my friends against me. she always steals my friends too. she makes fun of me and my crush and threatns to tell him i like him! She's a kiss-up to the teachers and gets me in trouble for talking. Then, i just got pissed at her and she sent me a disturbing picture of an eye. worse yet, i got it at 10 pm, and i couldnt get to sleep. she had a voice attachment that said, "i have come for you" and my mom called the police! She makes people feel bad too. Like if she asks me if she can have a part of my lunch and I say no and give it to someone else, she'll ask that person and get it! she's your average girl who likes to ruin other girl's lives. i'd be as mean as possibly possible. turn everyone against her. (expept my life-ruiner is hated by all). Have u ever read the first and second clique books when the clique trys to ruin one girls life? you should read it. it gives awsome tips. but the only bad thing is that the girl who is getting picked on becomess part of their clique. also, you could use the porn thing as blackmail. and tell all of her friends, your friends and her parents. but the more HUMANE way is to just completely ignore her. :) I hope i've helped :)
2007-01-02 17:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by Liongirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there. What you do is play it cool Like you don't care. Then go home and print out a bunch of flyers with her picture on it and say This girl has herpes. Stay away from her or you will pay for the rest of your life. Spread them all over the hallways. People will pick them up. Print a bunch so it takes awhile for them to pick them all up. Go to school early and throw them all over especially in the boys bathrooms. Then a couple days later when you have the chance to get her alone tell her that's what you get for being a *****. Tell her you have worst things in mind if she ever messes with you again!
2006-12-30 17:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by Amber T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't get back at her. That's getting down to her level. Just pretend that you don't care. If she keeps it up then just tell her off. You can always use the porn and masturbation thing as blackmail. Find some people that you trust and give them one little eye roll when she starts saying something to you.
2006-12-30 22:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge in the world that is unharmful is to act like you are having the best time of your life. Obviously you've done something or have something that she is jealous about. Act like you don't even care.
2006-12-30 17:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey the best way to hurt someone like that is to Kill Them With Kindness. I know this is hard, but it really does work. When she says something bad to you or about you just say something nice in return. Finally when she sees that she can't make you mad she'll leave you alone.
2006-12-30 17:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by Pearl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the girl sounds kind of slutty. I knwo girls like that. Hey just be normal and in a couple of years that girl's life will suck i promise. Don't be a jerk back and you'll be fine. Everythign will work out man.
2006-12-30 17:14:04 · answer #8 · answered by abrod262000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get some dirt on her like if she has connections to people that will give info on her or just ask her parents you know that they will have dirt on her. and you can say rumors about her.
2006-12-30 17:07:50 · answer #9 · answered by kellyhalkyard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to stoop to her level then seek revenge otherwise go on with your life and ignore her.
2006-12-30 17:14:48 · answer #10 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋