i think i'm bi and i really don't want to be. is there anyway i can stop this or lessen this? any lies i can keep telling myself? i'm really uncomfortable around girls because of this.
2006-12-30 08:51:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you can't change that.
2006-12-30 09:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the moment you are lying to and denying yourself. What i personally think you should do is embrace your true self and explore yourself and this world!!! There is so many different beautiful things in this world (and the ugly too) but come on why wouldn't you want to be [insert your name here] and be true to yourself instead of hiding what is clearly a part of you that you cannot change - we've only got one life. You cant stop it so you gotta learn to just relax around girls, get out and try and meet people similar to yourself too because then you wont feel so weirded out by the whole thing.
2006-12-30 18:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by lj_likka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there r no lies u can tel ya self coz u wil jst keep livin a lie. u r who u r and u shud face up to it. there is nothin wrong wiv bein bi and if u tell your m8s thy should accept who u r. if thy dnt thn thy r not worth it coz it jst shows that thy r not true friends. dnt b affraid to b who u r. bein bi doesnt make u a freak. u r as normal as every1 else and u need to accept hu u r and start bein yourself coz if u dont then u r only gona make ya self unhappy.
2006-12-30 16:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by dudett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you think your bi does not mean you have to participate in the feelings
we can all admire a member ofthe same sex without taking it further
2006-12-30 17:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by shannara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are gay (even partially) but you don't want to be gay (and I laughed out loud about this) why are you seeking suggestions/advise here? Maybe some professional counselling could help you more than the dozens or so answers here.
2006-12-30 17:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by Kedar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not really much you can do to stop it, but if you don't want people to find out, maybe you should hang around more guys. Hopefully your friends will understand.
2006-12-30 16:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by Brittany Z 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i knew someone like you have described. she finally came out once and for all. in her prime she was a beauty. guys hitting on her until she had to drive them away. led to a lot of drinking but she recovered and came out. she died a couple of years ago and i miss her. but i know whatever made her the way she was didn't matter in the long run. i was one who hit on her before i knew but we stayed friends when i learned where she was coming from. light a candle for binky.
2006-12-30 16:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop denying it. i know what your going through im bi too and it gets less uncomfortable after a while. just embrace who you truly are
2006-12-30 16:55:00 · answer #8 · answered by KTbaybee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok heres the thing you have to tell the truth nothing but the truth becasue all your friends will be happy becasue you told the trith and you will get that big fuzzy feeling so i hope that will make you feel better good luck bye!
2006-12-30 16:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
being gay is just who you are and I guess you also like men too. Being bi means you're just not sure of what you are. Try dating guys and girls and see which one is you
GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-30 18:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by You're My Wonderwall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just allow your self to acknowledge a women's beauty but don't put yourself in a situation where someone would approach or tempt you. Just tell yourself that it is OK to be attracted to someone, but if you sense that they feel the same way you have to run!!
2006-12-30 16:58:50 · answer #11 · answered by Mimi 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋