I really wanted my ex back what he said made me change a whole lot well... that what my friends say. At the time he said he wanted a pretty asian girl or a pretty hispanic and I am hispanic. To me that told me I am not pretty. So during summer vaction
lets say I was on a "diet" I wasen't really eating still do. While I was doing that I fainted once. I became extreamly obsessed about my weight and looked it the mirror everyday I still do. When I went back to school everyone noticed the change some of my other friends didn't even recognize me. then after a few mouths I told my friend if she could tell him what I had done. She basicly told me "he dosen't care leave him alone!!!" yada yada yada and "his life is really good right now and he dosen't want me to ruin it" I just wanted to know if you guys think I should have gotten another chance. Also I think I might have BDD (body dysmorphic disorder). Before I thought I was the prettist girl in the world now I feel like a conplete fat ***
2006-12-30 08:41:43 · 8 answers · asked by Meechelle 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
First mistake you made was trying to conform to what you thought the guy wanted. You should NEVER change who you are for a guy. Trust me, as time goes on, you'll realize that you are worth a million dollars....no matter how you look. If you do have BDD then you need to deal with it now and not wait. It is serious and you could end up in the hospital or even dead. And all this over some guy???
No one is more important than you. If he didn't want you the way you were then you should have forgotten about him.
Don't change who you are. You still have to find who you are in life and figure out your reason for being here.
2006-12-30 09:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on and live your life. If this boy, wants to talk to you he will. As I tell my 16 year old daughter, if you chase they will run, so let the boy make his move. You are pretty and smart and don't base your life around a boy. There are millions out there. Make good grades and do what you want to do. Life is to short to worry so much over one person. You should concerned with you health. I know all about eating disorders. You are needing control of something, whether is the food you are eating or not and that is your choice. But, please don't make yourself so upset that you stop eating.
2006-12-30 08:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by docie555@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't waste your time or your life on this guy. As for your weight problem you need to see a doctor because you have now developed a eating disorder and it may eventually kill you. Do you think that giving up your life for a loser like this guy?
2006-12-30 08:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by Hunny Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone let them go. If they don't come back it was never ment to be. Now---go get a big juicy cheeseburger with biggie fries and start enjoying your life. That would be a cold day in hell when I skip a meal for some guy. geez
2006-12-30 09:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget relationships right now, concentrate on getting yourself a career and have some fun for a change.
2006-12-30 08:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by government slave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to forget about him, and you need to move on. My girlfriend thinks she is fat, and she is barely 100 lbs. You need to realize that he's not good enough for you, so you should find someone new.
2006-12-30 08:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by Kirashumo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man tells you he doesn't want you, he doesn't.
It's OK for you to take care of yourself but you must do it for yourself not for someone else, if you do you are bound to be disappointed.
He did nothing wrong.
2006-12-30 08:45:19 · answer #7 · answered by r1b1c* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up.. hard but true.
2006-12-30 08:44:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋