I`m in my hometown in CT. I go to college in RI. I can`t stop thinking about one of my friends and i`ve liked her for a while...
We hooked up before, then ignored each other for a while, and started hanging out again in November... I get the feeling that she likes me back, but I have doubts... She flirts with me sometimes, or is that mistaken for friendliness? Do I tell her? Do I risk losing a friendship?
2006-12-30 08:33:25 · 10 answers · asked by Chef Shortie 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Speaking as someone who has been in the same situation.I would tell her.Worst case scenario she don't like you,you could probably still be friends once your honest about it.Best case,she really likes you and you get together.But the place your in right now,probably sucks bad.At least it did for me.But id go with your gut if you think shes flirting with you,she probably is.Just don't get you hopes up to high.And talk to her,but don't be to aggressive that was my mistake.Whatever you choose good luck.Hope shes into you.
2006-12-30 13:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may risk losing her friendship, or you may be successful, but the thing to ask yourself is this: why all the urgency? If she is already around you, somewhat frequently, and if she is interested in you, too, then why not let things develop at their own pace?
You are right, that sometimes rushing things can put people off. On the other hand, if it begins to seems like she isn't picking up your subtle hints after a reasonable period of time, you might be fored to step forward, admit your love, and risk all. Good luck.
Happy 2007, we could all use a break.
2006-12-30 16:40:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kedar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you're thinking...what you're feeling. Even if she doesn't feel the same way, if she's a real friend, nothing will change between you two. And if she feels the way that you hope she might, maybe you've found a great love. Go for it!
2006-12-30 19:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by Tara's_Willow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring it up in a conversation as something else. If she likes you then go out if she doesn't then forget about it and keep on being her friend. You're just curious about it and if she's a real friend she won't be mad.
2006-12-30 18:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by You're My Wonderwall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say tell her u ave got nothin to lose. u stopd speakin for a while as u said so if that happens again it shouldnt really be to hard on you as you seemd to of got through it the last time when u stoppd speakin.
2006-12-30 16:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by dudett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like her you should tell her because you have FEELINGS for her right?
I dont think It will be a problem for you!
2006-12-30 16:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly,this is the gay spot you might have the wrong room.
secondly, if you like her and you think she might like you, make a move, she is probably waiting.
2006-12-30 16:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by Darmcc15 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you guys hook up before its obvious she likes you so i would say go for it
2006-12-30 16:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way,go for it.
2006-12-30 16:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her.
2006-12-30 16:37:09 · answer #10 · answered by imamulleith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋