How can I make more frnds to spend time with? I take karate and am fairly active in church. But I have no one?

Question

to be close to.

Answer 1

Friends aren't peole you just look for...it happens.

Answer 2

Are you a pushy bitchy in your face I'll say what I want kind of person, the fix that.

If you're not as described above and you're not a nose picking nail biter with bo then just interact with the karate kids and the church kids. Invite people to do things. Have party for the karate kids your age or the church kids your age.

Usually the mention of church is a red flag in this sense. Your religion and your religious beliefs should be personal and not something you shove down the throats of others. If you're always talking about jesus, then no one, except other zealots, will want anything to do with you.

Without knowing you I can only keep guessing at what the problem is. Good luck. It's important to feel like you have friends.

Answer 3

Try to be more open to others but don't be to desperate and make friends with the wrong people. Also try to make friends the old fashion way instead of trying to buy their friendship. Try to join some group activities like book clubs or some sport associated groups. Don't refer to the Internet it often leaves you worse then when you started. Invite your neighbours over or go up to people at work functions or maybe ask family members if they know anyone that you might ave a good time with. Also you could try to hook up with some old childhood friends. I did that during my midlife crisis and we talk alot now. it is just like when we were kids.

Answer 4

You have to look at yourself, critically. Do I bragg, am I shy, am I rude, ect. And see what your bad habits are. It could also be that you are too involved in things and you don't have time for friendship. But you said you like karate make friends with people in that. Just be happy

Answer 5

Go places where people your age hang out and talk to people there. Find a penpal or make a profile on a website looking for friends, just be careful how much info you tell people about yourself.

Answer 6

it is the same for a lot of us. it is a sign of the times. where are the communities and connections that keep you linked with friends and family? the job, the housing, the transportation etc. etc. it gets where it is easier to watch tv, work or play on your home pc or go shopping alone. you cannot trust who you might be dealing with. nutzoids and people with hidden diseases are everywhere according to the dreary news reports. what to do? my answer is there must not be anything we can do.

Answer 7

You're doing all the right things....maybe put yourself out there and be the 1st one to ask someone to do something? Probably others out there feeling the same way, wishing someone would make the 1st move for friendship.

Answer 8

Well if you want close freinds you need to be close with them.Ask them to hang out some time and make sure you don't stand them up unless an emergency.Just be nice and cool to them and they should be close.

Answer 9

Well maybe your trying to hard. Need to just let life flow and join it and soon you will have a lot of friends. Also go to school functions. Or IM me I'll be your friend also.

Answer 10

ummm if i where in ur positon just like say hi to every1 that passes by and make new friends at the mal or movies..start a conversation w/ sumone thast looks frendly or wave to a cute boy

Answer 11

There's got to be some people in your classes or church you can befriend, isn't there? Just be friendly and talk!