I have a male lover-friend in his early 20s who also has a relationship (in a different, European country -- I am Canadian Quebecoise) with both a 36 year old single mom woman and her 15 year old daughter. Apparently the affair with the mom came first then the daughter asked the mom upon coming of consent age (14 in the country referred to) if she would OK her becoming involved with him, too, and the mom, knowing him to be a good person and a good lover (indeed he is both) said it would be acceptable. Apparently there is no ménage au trois; he dates and sleeps with each separately but they share meals and he stays at their place when he is in town, and they are all happy with the arrangement (the daughter has told me so when I talked with her when she phoned my male friend).
Have you had any experiences like this? Could you?
2006-12-30 08:12:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
At first I thought that this question could not be serious. I have a feeling that you are either a man, or a woman who is older than what you portray yourself to be. It seems more fantasy-related than reality-related.
Also, the question doesn't make sense. You begin by saying that it's YOUR male lover-friend has a relationship with these females, etc, but then you say it's in another European country. But you are in Canada, which is hardly European. You then speak of another male who is your friend. Which is it?
But, just answering the question as it stands, there are so many wrongs in this scenario. He's in his 20's. He's having sex with a 36 year old woman and her 14 year old daughter. (Why isn't that mom thinking?) He's having sex with you, and I am guessing you to be about 16 or so, if you are a child. I am wondering how many other little girls he is sleeping with. This is called pedophilia, not to mention STD's.
So, no experiences like this and could not have experiences like this.
2006-12-30 08:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard of this and it wouldn't be for me. I am very concerned about the age of the daughter, the age difference between her and the guy, and the inappropriateness of the mothers behaviour. The whole situation is unsavoury and not the behaviour of a caring, protective mum whose first duty should be to protect her daughter from exploitation. I also don't understand why you tolerate this if he is also your lover. I hope he's using protection.
2006-12-30 08:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had an experience like that......and I don't see any good coming out of a relationship like that. I feel that the mother is foolish for involving her daughter, especially at that young age. In my opinion, he's a pedophile.
2006-12-30 08:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think the whole bunch ought to get arrested. Him, for having sex with a minor, the Mom for allowing such a thing to happen to her daughter, and anyone else that condones such behavior. How in this world is that child going to grow up with any values, when this is allowed in her house....and promoted no less! Then we wonder why kids are "messed up"?
2006-12-30 08:58:00 · answer #4 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ihave ot had a expierience like this but i can tell u some advice just thinkbout this(im not from ur countryso i dont really know)
•is that commomnin urcountry
•do u and the people thathe are involved with all fell comfortable withthis
•how many people r he with?
•is he really a good person or just asking so he can sleep wiith girls...if u nedanything elseplzcontact me at iluvbobice24@yahoo.com
2006-12-30 08:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by ♥lifes just another fairytale♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well think about if you had a daughter... i certainly would not approve of this. i think that it is wrong to even be involved with someone like that, regardless of customs what about morals?
2006-12-30 08:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by tarahabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds trashy and fake. Get them some morals lol. 14 yr old whore lol...yay for parenting.
2006-12-30 08:15:08 · answer #7 · answered by Thumper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you stay with this guy?! You're all sickos! Sek professional help. Please! He's a pervert and you obviously have a problem too.
2006-12-30 08:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Jerry Springer, he's got a show for your friend..............
OMFG.......
2006-12-30 08:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope....personally I think it is sick
2006-12-30 08:30:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋