Even though he said he would look into marrying me if he had gotten me pregnant i am yet only 18 and in veterinary school and i dont think i am ready to have a child and dont believe in abortion.. so if i am pregnant what should i do????
2006-12-30 07:56:45 · 15 answers · asked by Kaitlyn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why didn't you use any protection, if you had then you would not be worrying right now on whether you are pregnant, him saying he would look into marrying you is not going to make a bit of difference because then he would be only doing it out of a obligation and not for love, and how would you finish out veterinary school, having a child cost money and they require all if not most of your attention, take a pregnancy test so that you can know for sure then talk to your parents about your options...
2006-12-30 08:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Look into" marrying you? Way to be committed, dude. Anyway, what makes you think you could be pregnant? You didn't use protection? I pray you are not pregnant. Sounds like you just made a mistake.
If you are prego though, you'll get ready to have a child, especially if you don't believe in abortion. Stay in school! I wouldn't let it ruin my life. A mother with a career and prospects will be able to do so much more for herself and her child. As for what Tyler does, you can't control that. Best, GG.
2006-12-30 17:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont worry to much the odds of you getting pregnant are very slim, a perfectly fertile male and female only have a 25 % chance of getting pregnant each month. and never get married because of a child... it rarely works out , you should be in love before marriage.Next time be more careful, and if you was to be pregnant dont rush anything, everything will work out.
2006-12-30 16:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by tarahabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advise you to take a pregnancy test. If you are pregnant, perhaps you can buy the over the counter pill that will abort you. In the future do not allow anyone to talk you into having sex as some men, whether or not you believe it, will say anything to get you into bed as they believe in "love'em and leave'em".
He said he would look into marrying you, not that he would marry you.
2006-12-30 17:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by madisonian51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why girls keep on having sex unprotected if there is so much information out there. Listen you have your whole life ahead of you- don't rush into things, your too young, just remember if you get pregnant at this stage in your life things will never be the same, I'm not saying you won't or can't fulfill them it just that its going to be much harder. So take your precautions if your going to have sex and pursue your goals- THIS SHOULD BE # 1 PRIORITY IN YOUR LIFE NOW.
2006-12-30 16:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell mommy and daddy. But, first check to see if you really are. If you were so scared, ypu should have had protection. Or, not made love last night. God Bless. I'm going to be a Veterinarian, is it hard so far? What year are you in???
2006-12-30 16:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the emergency pill before 72 hrs i think go 2 a clinicn get thats but next time use protection or start taking some kind of birth control
2006-12-30 19:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by 9U3R@ bBY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in veterinary school, you are too smart to be having unprotected sex! Are you willing to take the morning after pill? Ask your gynocoligist if he/she prescribes it. While you are there, get yourself on some form of birth control!
2006-12-30 16:04:11 · answer #8 · answered by Katie Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 years old is old enough to know that there are condoms exactly to prevent that! Seriously... You are old enough to know this and if you are not ready to use a condom while having sex, then you´re not ready to be a parent! it would be an unfortunate event for both you and your kid if you were.. next time, USE A CONDOM!
And if you did use a condom.. Congratulations and chances are you are not pregnant!
2006-12-30 16:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't have unprotected sex! there is free birth control out there for just about anyone so there is no excuse...be-careful and be smart its your life we are talking about and I wouldn't want anyone who says they would look into marrying me if i got pregnant. why would you want to give yourself to someone who would only look into marrying you in a have to situation! think about it your more special then that!
2006-12-30 16:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋