my bf and i have been together for one year almost going to two weve been sexually active for the past 6 months...hes 18 and im four years younger....he wants to meet my parent plus he wants to tell him whats been going on with me and him (YOU KNOW THE SEX) HOW WEVE BEEN DOING .....SO MYparents wont trip about it but i dont know what to do.....im mexican and you know virginity is a big thing to parents...so should i go with his idea to tell my parents whats going on or just keep it on the low???
2006-12-30 07:50:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your 14 and he's 18 eek I dont know if your parents will like that let alone being sexually active with him.
2006-12-30 07:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering what uve been doing with ur boyfriend is a crime, i really think that it is in ur best interest to keep the details to urself, because if ur parents did flip out like u said theres a possibility that they will call the cops and if that happened then ur boyfriend would most likely go to jail for statuatory rape, because by law u are not of legal age to give concent to sex
STATUTORY RAPE: A legal term describing sexual intercourse between an adult and a minor. The adult can be found guilty of statutory rape in courts of law even if the minor was a willing partner.
2006-12-30 16:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If virginity were important to Mexicans there would be far fewer unwed Mexican mommies of three before the age of 17! Statutory RAPE...you are a child and should have kept your legs closed until you were 18. Let your boyfriend tell them so you can both be properly punished for your ignorance and negligence of the law and your lack of respect for your family names.
2006-12-30 15:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay so why have you been going together over a year and he hasnt met your parents? and why does he just want to blurt out and tell them ab your having sex? and why are you 14 years old having sex with an 18 year old? o my gosh - think about it.
looks like you need to answer some question for yourself.
2006-12-30 15:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by Beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I found out that my 14 year old daughter was doing the nasty with an 18 year old I would contact the police and have him brought up on statutory rape charges. And that is the least I would do. The rest would be illegal.
2006-12-30 15:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU SHOULD HAVE ASKED QUESTION BEFORE YOU LOST YOUR VIRGINITY...#1---------#2-TELLING THE PARENTS WHAT?---THAT THEIR DAUGHTERS BEEN LESS THAN HONEST?...............I THINK LEGALLY YOUR"BF" COULD BE ARRESTED............#3-IS YOUR F..A.T..H..E..R GOING TO FFFFFFLLLIIPPPIP? #4-DUH #5 TELL MOM SHE WON'T LET YOUR DAD KILL YOUR "BF" SHE MIGHT GO AFTER YOU BUT .....THATS BETTER THAN ...ALOT OF THE THINGS THAT CAN GO WRONG HERE.....YOUR ON THE DAMAGE CONTROL SIDE ON THIS AND YOU NEED YOUR MOM ON YOUR SIDE.-----#6 MOST IMPORTANT YOUR BF NEEDS TO HAVE SOME KIND OF RELATIONSHIP FIRST.....IF HE CAN SURVIVE THAT FOR A GOOD 6-12 MONTHS MAYBE HE CAN SOFTEN THEM UP BEFORE HE "DROP THE BOMB"---HE'S NOT IN SALES I'LL TELL YOU THAT...HE SHOULD BE THOUGH BECAUSE HE BETTER BRING SOMETHING TO THE"TABLE"-THINK THIS THROUGH-PLEASE
2006-12-30 16:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by Smith & Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
# 1. I'm sorry but hes too old for u!! Hes 4 yrs older than u! I'm sry but he just is
2. Dont do it!
2006-12-30 16:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by countrygirlcammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents... Calmy.. Let them know what's been going on & just remember, if they flip out and get angry, it's out of love, and it's out of love because they're concerned. I recommend you talk to them.
2006-12-31 14:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you decide, not him
2006-12-30 15:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by god knows and sees else Yahoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋