He stays with her because shes pretty and smart. The thing is shes bossy, controlling, LAZY, treats him like dogcrap, and spends all of his money faster than he can make it!! If she doesn't get her way she throws a MAJOR fit!! She's a high maintenance, spoiled, and controlling big city b@tch, he's a down to earth, simple, and sweet country boy! How do I tell him that just because his girlfriend is "pretty" and "book smart" doesn't mean he should stay with her?
2006-12-30 07:50:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you cant tell him you have to let him find out for himself which by the sound of it he will then be there to pick up the pieces. its better not to be involved because he could end up taking it out on you or he could tell her what you think then you end up losing him as a friend
2006-12-30 07:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by upyafartpipe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't tell him. This is not your business. You cannot run people's lives. He will or won't arrive at this decision on his own. Your job is to have his back no matter what. Don't talk trash about his girlfriend in the meantime. He obviously loves her and anything negative you say will alienate him. It won't be her who goes, it will be you. Stand by and be there for him. Love is very peculiar and it causes very smart people to do very dumb things. But you cannot control whom you fall in love with. With all due respect, butt out, but stay close.
2006-12-30 07:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by eydieville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows what she is doing. it relatively is her employer once you and she or he are actually not at the same time. the two tell her to get her act at the same time and artwork it out, or get out so as which you would be able to circulate on with your existence. you're allowing your self to be controlled with the aid of her movements. it is ridiculous. If she isn't dedicated to you, then placed her out and enable her locate her very own way. She of course knows the thank you to define a place to stay!!
2016-11-25 01:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Let him discover it on his own. Just be a good friend and be prepared for the day he figures it out.
2006-12-30 07:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by ??? LadyBoyd ??? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not up to you to tell him anything. All that will do is make him more determined to be with her, and also he will think you are jealous. You just have to hope that sooner or later he will realize what she is doing.
2006-12-30 07:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let him figure it out. You can tell him but you are not in the relationship....he is. Sometimes people have to learn for themselves
2006-12-30 07:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt if I were you. Let him sort out his own personal life.
2006-12-30 07:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's his business. Why are you trying to break them up anyways?
You sound jealous .
Maybe you want him as your BF .....
2006-12-30 07:53:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋