i was out drinking with my boyfriend on christmas eve. when i came home christmas morning, i found an empty bottle of wine and TWO wine glasses!!!! the holidays are family time!!! how can he do this to me? our marriage is perfect, he understands our "little arrangement". i am devestated! should i divorce him, or just make his life miserable?
2006-12-30 07:49:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-12-30 08:09:30 · update #1
First of all I would like to say that this forum is no place for tomfoolery, it is for people with real problems and I'm here to help. Just in case you are serious:
You were out drinking with another guy and now your pissed because he might be cheating? What's good for the goose is good for the gander Toots. You both have morals issues and I suggest you both seek counseling immediately.
Hope this helps.
And just in case you're not serious, consider yourself reported.
Have a nice day.
Good luck.
2006-12-31 03:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Let me get this straight, you were out with your boyfriend, you came home the next morning....ok?! lol - red flag already.
You find two wine glasses (another red flag lol) so he's obviously getting frisky with the next door neighbour. Lady, why don't you go back to yo boyfriend, or invite yoy boyfriend over to your place, you never know, your husband might be cheating on you wit another bloke and it might be his thing. If you're being serious about this, it's your own fault, your husband will accept it, but hes not gonna wait for you to come back from visiting your boyfriend without sleeping around, if he's got a wife who does that kind of ****, then too right. Sign those divorce papers....marriage these dayz just ain't the same!
2006-12-30 15:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
just because there were 2 glasses does not mean that he was cheating on you. if you were out together, where did you go when he went home? if the holiday's are really "family time" you would think that you would have at least woken up in your own home with you hubby on Christmas day. he could have been drinking that wine with anyone.
2006-12-30 15:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You left your husband at home to go and spend some quality time with some dude?..now you're pissed b/c your husband also called someone else to fill in for you?..so, what's the problem?..'He was lonely, so lonely he had no one to call his own" so don't blame him for having someone over-matter of fact you should be happy at the fact that he wasn't home alone all by himself-how selfish can you be. Getting your groove on while you leave the poor thing at home.
2006-12-30 16:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by Hyatt A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relax. He couldn't get the kids to sleep so he let them have some "Jesus Juice" so he could watch his porn is silence. And I know for a fact you drink wine out of a box at your house. In big gulp cups.
2006-12-30 19:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm. I feel your pain. I think you should invite your boyfriend home for New Year's Eve!!
It's your home, too, ya know!!
That'll show that cheatin' man of yours.
BTW, is that Mary Kay or Avon eyeshadow???
Ha! Happy New Year to you and ALL of yours!
2006-12-30 16:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by Abby 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ask him about it if he seems nervous or is saying um a lot when giving an answer then he is lying if he gives you a quick response with no stuttering and no um then he is probably telling the truth since you don't want to punish someone for something the did not do then hire a private investigator they really do work
2006-12-30 15:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by doobiemanrfrank 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have an open marriage, he has a right to see other people as well. If it hurts you so much then be faithful, work on your marriage, relationship, loyalty and mutual respect. Otherwise, best to divorce and move on.
2006-12-30 15:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ah, so you have the typical arrangement of most women huh? You can do whatever you like or want, but if he does the same, you are mad and feel wronged. LOL. Damn, the textbook woman you are.
I would imagine that you already make his life miserable. Isnt that what women do best?
2006-12-30 16:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
if u have a bf, he can have one too.. right? maybe he was waiting for u to come home and celebrate with him and he took the 2 glasses out!!
2006-12-30 16:09:52 · answer #10 · answered by kLaUDiA G 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋