even your best frien never thought about u?masy b she is doing this so she go at my place. v always thought good for her and she is doing bad to me.
2006-12-30 06:33:45 · 15 answers · asked by little 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just ignore her dear don't stress or upset yourself because of others. live your life independently and ignore people who irritate you. Always trust on the almighty he'll bless you.
2006-12-30 22:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by whatever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When no one seems to support you in the bad times of your life, it is time to look at yourself and your life and ask why. Why is this a bad time of your life?
It could be bad times because of things you have no control over, such as the death of a relative or loved one for example. Maybe it is because of things happening that you do have control over such as over spending and not having money for your bills, or maybe you lost your job and try as you think you are you are not finding a job. These things you have some control over.
If you are a complainer, someone who complains about troubles but does nothing to improve or remedy the situation, not many people, even relatives, are going to be supportive of that kind of behavior.
If you have a dysfunctional family and you are the one that is healthy then create your own healthy family by developing a circle of friends with whom you can have a give and take relationship.
If you are taking the appropriate amount of responsibility for your bad times, then you can support yourself as well. There is nothing in life's rule book that says you have to have support from outside yourself, it's just nice to have it.
Take a good long look at yourself and decide what is really a bad time for you. Being homeless is definately a bad time. Having friends and relatives not support you for making a choice about your life is not necessarily a bad time, right?
2006-12-30 14:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by Pixie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop depending on others and have faith in yourself.
You will never need an answer to this question.
We always tend to feel that people have time for us, but it is not true. You can put as much as you can in others but when it comes to you they have nothing to offer you and this is universal.
Stop expecting any thing in return when you do something for any one, you will be less disappointed and will have power to move of your own in life.
2007-01-02 10:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We shud stop Blaming Life.. & Move Over it.. Smthings In Life are Ment to Be how they cm & Pass By.. There is Not always Reason to Everything.. Just like that, U are On ur Own.. Learn to Live life in Hell... & If Ur Lucky U'll Find Happiness Here too..
2006-12-30 14:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by Reasoner.. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm going through same phase of life means I find myself very very isolated but I don't need someone to support me. I'll stand on my own.
See I suggest u that u don't luk for support, work hard and standup, when u standup, start walking, when u see ur self walking start running, when ur running run fastest and leave behing all those who ignored u, isolated u and didn't turnup to support you.
Best of Luck
2006-12-31 07:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes time resolves lot of issue but meanwhile, practice patience and keep quite. Traditionally, we try to fix issue by asking questions, understanding behaviour and creating perceiption but as you mentioned you are in bad time, i feel you dont react on your emotions and not focus on such things. Think more about things which makes you internally happy by remembering good time of your life.
If your friend does not call you in your bad time then it means she is not best friend but sometimes, you should think historically why this is happening and why its making you crazy.
2006-12-31 22:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mehul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never depend anybody for support in life becos life always gives unexpected. And u can stand alone without support of anybody.
2006-12-31 05:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by manish a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are gifted Healthy, young, with Brain why should u be depended on others?? just pray to God to have more strength to face ur bad time and be confident to urself..
2006-12-31 11:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You muddle through as best you can. The support of friends and family during hard times is a great comfort, but if that's not avialable then we make do on our own strength and will to get through it.
2006-12-30 14:35:39 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hi my dear...in todays life no body is urs......truth of life.
my dear u cn do nothing.. just go forward for ur future..instead of thinking...nd after time passage..she will *** back to u with lots of guilts.
dnt worry.nd dnt get upset.
tc.
gud day
2007-01-03 00:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋