My ex is telling my daughter he's going to keep looking for ways to get me put in jail, even if he has to plant drugs in my car. He intends to keep finding things to take me to court for. Does my restraining order cover this or do I have to let him continue until I can have him arrested for harassment?
2006-12-30 06:28:06 · 5 answers · asked by chocolatemint4 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
where i live, the restraining orders specify that the person cannot relay messages through another party, this being "3rd person communication". There can be no direct contact -- by phone, mail, email, by passing a letter from a 3rd person to you, etc.
were these threats made in a "tell your mother ..." sort of way? that would be violating the RO. If he made those remarks and did not use your daughter to relay them specifically, then she is telling you on her own. Contact the advocates in the domestic abuse service center to ask them about the specifics of your situation. Only a person who knows the language on your actual RO and the laws of your county can give you a meaningful answer to this question.
Good luck.
2006-12-30 06:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Contact the court that issued the order and advise them of these threats, they will let you know if it is covered in your restraining order.
2006-12-30 06:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to have ALL these little incidents recorded and call the police [NOT the 911 number tho, unless in immediate danger]
What age is your child and would / can she give a GOOD report of what he is saying, or even better can she record HIS threats on her phone or something like that.
To answer YES your restraining order covers ALL this type of thing both from him and his family or friends.................
Good luck...........
2006-12-30 06:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by candy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how it's written, sorry, no one could answer that without reading it.
I'd call the cops and tell them what he's doing, let them decide if it's an arrestable offense. What do you have to lose????
2006-12-30 06:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU AND YOUR GIRL **NEED TO** GO IMMEDIATELY TO YOUR LOCAL POLICE STATION AND *TOGETHER* DESCRIBE THESE THINGS. *MAKE SURE!!!!!!!THAT YOUR DAUGHTER GIVES HER OWN WORD, HER OWN TESTIMONY, IN ADVANCE....THIS IS CALLED PREVENTATIVE MAINTENANCE....IT IS BLACKMAIL, AND ABOUT THE MOST NAIVE THING THE IDIOT EX COULD HAVE DONE.
YOU MUST IMPLANT CAMERA'S, MIC'S AND SURVEILLANCE SOMEHOW, AND GET INTO A PURPOSEFUL, BUT SAFE, ARGUMENT ABOUT HOW UNREASONABLE HE IS ACTING...(IN FRONT OF YOUR CAMERA'S OF COURSE)...DO NOT REVEAL TO HIM EVER THAT YOU HAVE DONE THIS...THEN GO IMMEDIATELY BACK TO THE P.D. AND HAND IN A *COPY* OF YOUR RECORDING FOR ^^^^^^p r o o f ^^^^^^^^^^!!!!!
IF HE IS DOWN AND DIRTY, AND UN-REMORSEFUL, THEN YOU NEED TO FIGHT FIRE WITH FIRE AND NIP THIS SITUATION IN THE BUD! DO IT NOW!!!!!!
I HOPE TO HEAR IF YOU DO, AND BE IN CONTACT, AND GET HIS PUNK *** JAILED, AND RIGHTS TO YOUR GIRL REVOKED. WHAT A BASTARD!!!!!!
GOD BLESS YOU, AND KEEP YOU AND YOUR CHILD SAFE--FROM ALL FORMS OF INJUSTICE.!!!~ AMEN.
^7^
2006-12-30 06:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by º§€V€Nº 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋