I am having a sleepover soon and I dont want to invite a certain friend because she is quite wierd and my other friends dont like her. What should I tell her?
2006-12-30 05:57:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her you tried to get a hold of her, but thought she was away for Christmas Vacation. Make it sound like she wasn't around and didn't come over.
2006-12-30 05:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it from your use of the word "friend" that she is actually a friend and therefore YOU quite like her. Therefore it is your job to not offend her. She will find out about this party. It's your party and your guestlist. You can invite her and your other friends will have to cope. That is if you want to invite her, and you don't not want her their just coz you're worried what they will think. So she's a lil weird? She might be fun in a few years and will appreciate you being a great mate.
If you genuinely don't want her there, tell her you can only have a couple of people and get your friends to keep up the act. Tell her you will see her another night. Be prepared for her to be upset though!
2006-12-30 17:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her about the sleepover? I do not see why you are friends with someone who you wouldn't invite over, though. People are different, and some take a while to adjust to each other. But do you plan to always hang out with her when your other friends aren't around?
2006-12-30 14:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this has happened to me before. so i garentee this will be a sucess. so this is what u do: tell all your friends at school that the party was over and that there isnt going be to one because u got grounded for talking back to your pparents or make something else up that will lead u grounded.
however, before u do this, tell your nonweird friends about your "plan." so really, they know that there still is a party.
and at the same time, the weird friend will think there isnt going to be a party!
hoped this helped. =)
2006-12-30 14:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by googoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a friend , be kind and tell her how you feel about her. She cannot be a particularly great friend of yours if you are ashamed of her. On the other hand maybe your other friends can get a talking to , maybe you could tell them that she is a friend of yours and you would like them to treat her as such. She may just turn out to be your best friend. Nothing wrong with being weird. :))
2006-12-30 14:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by Duisend-poot 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well....just tell her that you will have a special sleep over with her and make it extra special.. but if she finds out that you have one and didn't invite her then she is going to be upset and a friend wouldn't do that to a friend.
2006-12-30 14:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by kAtTs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go see her, just the two of you on neuteral ground. tell her what you feel, if you are such good friends then you will be able to do this.she will only feel humiliated if she comes to sleepover and if you dont invite her she will feel awfull too.
be honest with her and tell her how her behaviour seems to outsiders.
2006-12-30 14:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by matured 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was in 5th grade i had a birthday party and i didnt invite one kid from down the street. when he saw some guys starting to come to my house he figured we were gonna play soem hockey so he just came down. then i had to tell him that i didnt invite him to the party but i wanted him to come now. seeing his face made me feel so badly. he ended up coming to the party and it was a good time but i hated that feeling of having to tell this good person that i excluded him. if i were you i would just try to incorporate her as much as possible. if you invite her and try to be as friendly as possible then it might not be a big deal to you but could mean everything to her. also if you dont invite her then it might end up being a big bad memory from her childhood.
2006-12-30 14:03:37 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you call yourself her friend, when you called her "werid". Maybe you should tell, i didn't invite you to the sllepover because, i don't think a true friend to you and you deserve better.
2007-01-02 15:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by taxi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her then you should definitely invite her. ignore ur other friends and what they think about her. Tell them that she means just as much 2 u as they do so she deserves better. if they can't accept that then that is their fault. and they really aren't ur friends
Good luck!!
2006-12-30 14:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋