If I been talking to and seeing someone for months now...but I have a bf and he a gf....what is this? Is this a relationship or just....I don't know....anyone has a answer?
2006-12-30 05:46:00 · 7 answers · asked by PrivateWoman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let's say it became more then just seeing each other into something else.....
2006-12-30 05:52:40 · update #1
It's called an affair.
2006-12-30 05:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by Chica Creole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be an affair. Even if you are not physical with the person, and you are "just talking" this could constitute an emotional affair.
The defining factor is how YOU feel about this person. Are your feelings so involved you seem to lose sight of the fact you have a boyfriend? (at anytime-not just all the time) Does he feel the same way?
If you answer yes, then it is an affair. If you answer no, then count your blessings because you have a confidant.
2006-12-30 05:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're friends. It's not an affair unless you're both in a comitted relationship (like married or engaged). Up to that point in a relationship, the purpose of dating and meeting other people is to find out what you like in other people, and prospective partners. So, I firmly believe you can't "cheat" on a boyfriend or girlfriend, because that's just the process of relationships changing. Once you've made that comittment to stay faithful to your partner for life, that's a different story.
2006-12-30 05:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the details of ''seeing each other''. If you are just visiting for coffee and hanging out, then it's a friendship. Anything more, and it's an affair.
2006-12-30 05:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight, and correct me where I'm wrong...
1. You have already installed bf
2. He already has installed gf
3. You, having bf#1, and he, having gf#1 are seeing each other excluding bf#1 & gf#1
Conclusion: No, it's not a relationship. IT'S CALLED CHEATING !!
2006-12-30 05:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a simple friendly relationship to me.....
2006-12-30 05:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by Papa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do u mean seeing? if it just means hanging out then it is just a friendship
2006-12-30 05:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by cheerin4bowwow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋