Now she is so worried that she is pregnant. She is about to tell her mom. I dont know what to do. She hasnt started her period yet but her breasts are hurting and shes cramping and i know those are symptoms of starting her period. What should I tell her?
2006-12-30 05:41:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
First tell her to calm down and not be so excited about something she isn't even sure of yet. Tell her she will not feel pregnancy symptoms only a few days after having unprotected sex. No woman's body works that way; its unheard of.
First of all you get your true first pregnancy symptoms after you are 6-8 weeks pregnant. You normally don't feel signs of being pregnant before then.
Second tell her she will start to force pregnancy symptoms upon her own body if she continues to think she is. She may even miss a period or two because she believes she's pregnant. It is not unheard of to miss a few periods if you force yourself to believe something that isn't true. Its psychological.
Bring her out to buy an HPT or ask her to buy one and take it in front of you. If you're speaking of having sex with her at least 20 days ago the HPT will be able to pick up the hormones. A negative test will put an end to her crazy thoughts and allow her to cool her jets.
If this was yesterday or the day before she is definitley getting too worked up over something not even a doctor can be sure of.
It takes 3-5 days after ovulation for a fertilized egg to implant itself into the woman's uterus and it takes an additional 10 days past ovulation for a doctor's blood test to pick up the hornones.
You can tell her all of the above stuff and you can also assure her that if she's feeling bloating, cramping, breast tenderness, or even frequent urination it is either PMS or all in her head.
If she chills out and gets the idea that she's going to be mommy out of her skull then she will be able to relax and wait for her period.
If she doesn't wait until her period is at least missed then these symptoms are: Faked, forced, or PMS because you can't feel REAL pregnancy symptoms until you've missed at least one period and even after the first missed period her symptoms will be faint.
In the future if you don't want her to get pregnant and this is merely a pregnancy scare use protection or contraceptive okay?
2006-12-30 06:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by PSItsMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who use the rhythm method skip having unprotected sex from around day #4 till Day #14 after a period begins. It is mildly sucessful. But definatley her chances of becoming pregnant in the week before her period is much less than at other times of the month. So...the chances of her being NOT being pregant are far more than the chances that she is....a few days will tell the answer. That being said....you can get pregnant at any time during the cycle. Pulling out is not a worthy way to avoid pregnancy.
Birth Control for her, or...
Condoms for you.
Choose one plese....
2006-12-30 05:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to wait a couple of days... after her normal start. I have unprotected sex (after both getting STD tests of course)... missed my period... took a test yesterday and I am not pregnant. I would get a test from the store and take it... if positive then go talk to parents.
Having unprotected sex, even if not cumming inside her WILL cause her to get pregnant. The pull out method is a sure fire way to get pregnant. Your body produces what is called pre-***... while you are in her, sperm is being released... before you ejaculate.
Make sure you both have been STD tested... :-)
2006-12-30 05:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by LifeIsPassion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to wait until she misses her period before doing anything. Also as a male get a clue and don't have unprotected sex or any sex at all unless you are ready to deal with an accidental pregnancy. It sounds to me like the two of you don't even have a plan in place as to what you would do if she did accidently get pregnant and if that is the case do not have sex until you guys discuss this issue.
2006-12-30 05:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it doesnt matter if you came in her or not she can still possibly get pregnant. But dont get too worked up about quite honestly, tell her to relax, if it doesnt come in a week than take a test. Or if her anxiety is really that high go and get a test than she can relax. But dude use a condom for future refrence by the sounds of it you seem a little too young to worry about your girlfriend being pregnant.
2006-12-30 05:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jenns705 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if you haven't ejaculated in her if you "pulled out" before that moment, there still a chance that pre-*** was secreted inside of her. In which case there is a chance she could get pregnant.The best way to be sure is to have her take a pregnancy test and hope that the results turn out the way you want.
2006-12-30 05:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by tearsofblood943 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun, i don't think of so. in actuality I distinctly doubt it. you won't actually have a era yet once you do not have faith me bypass to the shop and get a being pregnant try. easily inspite of the shown fact that, you won't additionally be asking this question in case you probably did not have intercourse. you will desire to stand the undeniable fact that something like which could ensue. like the condom splitting and 9 months later your a mommy. Wait 'till ultimately your extremely older it somewhat is the final difficulty to do.
2016-10-19 05:38:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, men think that if they don't ejaculate in the woman, she cannot become pregnant...farthest from the truth. Any sexual contact betwen you and your girlfirnd where your penis came in contact with her vagina, could cause a pregnancy. If her breasts are hurting her, and she is late and cramping, certainly causes some concern that she might be pregnant. I think it is an excellent idea to have a conversation with her mother and get her to see a doctor.
2006-12-30 05:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by bflogal77 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys can pre-*** at anytime, if you did which you probably did guys most guys do, she can still be pregnant cuz pre *** can have sperm in it so if she doesn't get her period I would tell her to take a pregnancy test.
2006-12-30 06:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to take a pregnancy test! Or wait a couple of weeks and see what happens. I think she's being too quick on the draw by jumping to the whole "I think I'm pregnant thing".
2006-12-30 05:44:14 · answer #10 · answered by Wannabeadoc06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋