i met a guy and we were kinda together, except he had a gf....i know weird and he told me he needed ivf to have and know i relise it is for females..i think i am pregnant to him now we arent together he does not know and wont belive me it is his... i have a funny feeling that he tricked me into having a baby and i will keep it
because i got told by a doctor if i have an abortion i cant have anymore children cause of the miscarriages i have had please help i am unsure ( i dont know the sign properlly i am head ache and vomiting but it is only a month since we had sex) is it too early to tell and i am healthy,so i cant think of another reason why i would be vomiting and i got told by a m8 i look like i am in my first trimester..
2006-12-30 05:25:19 · 10 answers · asked by Pudgee 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
my period is a week late
2006-12-30 05:46:51 · update #1
as for people saying i am stupid for not taking birth control, i cant take it cause it effects my epilepsy and can kill me and he told me he was sterile..it is my fault for trusting someone i think not
2006-12-30 05:52:05 · update #2
Please breathe for a few minutes here. Go to your local free pregnancy clinic in town first thing in the morning and get a pregnancy test done. If it's negative, relax, laugh a little and START USING BETTER PROTECTION!!! If not, go and take to a friend or family member about this. Preferably someone you know very well and trust. Once that's done, find this looser and tell him about it. If he won't support you, take is worthless A** to court!! If you decide to keep the baby, get a paternity test done. For the doctor to tell you what he/she did sounds a little funny to me(but then I'm not a OBGYN, so what do I know?), but you should see another doctor just to be sure anyways.
2006-12-30 05:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this probably wasn't the way you wanted to get pregnant but you are. Accept it as a God given gift. All you can do is repent for your wrong doings and move on with your life. If the child is his then you need to tell him, I'm guessing you don't want to be with him, but he needs to know that you are having his child whether he likes it or not because that is your decision not his. He is just going to have to deal with the consequences with his girlfriend. When the baby is born you can give him a blood test if he asks for one, because you have nothing to hide, and after the blood test says it's his put him on child support. I think you will be ok and I wish you the best of luck. Keep your head up, and don't let anyone put you down about this situation.
2006-12-30 05:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jazz21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, congrats! i am happy your are not going to abort the baby. I know it might be dificult right now, and i understand the babys dad denying the child, he will get over it, give him time, and give your self time, yes, you will have side effect because of the pregnancy, but remember, the baby you carry is a anothe piece of you, be happy, dont strees it, because worrying is not going to help it, but istead look for hep, there are many programs out there for pregnant woman like you, [o] if that guy does not respond in the future, honey remember that you dont need him, because you are strong and you will succeed with out a man! CONGRATS N GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-30 05:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go blaming him. If you weren't on birth control (prevent pregnancy)and using condoms (prevent STD's), its as much your fault as his. You acted stupid and slept with a guy that was dating someone else. Take the test and go from there. If you are pregnant, get a DNA test after the birth and get child support off him.
2006-12-30 05:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out for sure if you are pregnant before you panic. Being "KINDA TOGETHER" without using a condom is irresponsible. You think you're the only one he's having sex with on the side? You're lucky is pregnant is all you got from him.
He "tricked" you into having a baby. Uh huh. This situation is more than weird; it's irresponsible and immature.
You've got more than a bit of trouble. Hope you're not pregnant since obviously you're not ready and use condoms and get a man of your own.
2006-12-30 05:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2016-11-25 01:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the dude he got you pregnant and then if he chooses not to do anything about it raise the kid like a good mother would. Go to the doctor to make sure your actualy pregnant! Good Luck
2006-12-30 05:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well yeah your in your first trimester cause your only a month along. wait until your missed period, it should be coming up right?? you can always test a few days before your period if your too worried about it, but it could read out as a negative and you still could be pregnate, that's why I always say to wait until you actually miss your period before you test.
2006-12-30 05:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your prob preg and u should tell him unless u can take care of this baby on your own
2006-12-30 05:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i started getting sick my first week.
2006-12-30 05:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by texas nanna 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋