Because like I have STRONG religious beliefs...And like I feel like I'm being hipocrite about like girls...My own gender!...Like I've had a gf who is my best friend we are still friends but broke up but like I feel like...should I give up something I have been building for years(My spirituality) just for something such as being with someone of the same gender...something I discpvered about myself not too long ago....
2006-12-30 05:18:51 · 5 answers · asked by Marie_Do 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First of all, please don't reduce your spirituality to fighting your lesbian desires. A friend of mine who was in an ex-gay group said that's all his spirituality had become for him--fighting his desires, and nothing else. It's bigger since he left.
Secondly, you're not being a hypocrite. You are being honest with yourself.
It is very possible to be a LGBT Christian. Try visiting:
http://www.gaychristian.com
http://www.whosoever.org
I was there; it was hard.
2006-12-30 05:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did it, I left homosexual lifestyle a year or more ago for my spirituality. I will not have sex with any man until I really want it, maybe never, but I don't care about sex anyway, there are so many better things in life once you let your spirit in your life with the god of the bible or other scriptures, so much other pleasure or achievement to make than sex, or relationship. It's good to be focused on yourself and maybe your friends, if you have some that really are in tune with you, and move on with your life, for yourself. I think it's worth it. See, my ex-girlfriend has much money but doesn't give a cent to poor people, so ....what meaning does she have to me, what meaning can she have but being a superficial person that only cares about herself? I started to see her differently when I became religious....homosexuality is like said to dishonor you, not before people but in the eyes of god, the giver of everything. I live with him and he makes me happy. Thank you. Good luck and a happy new year. Contact me if you want k, bye
PS: LGBT gay christian is possible for people on world but not for true believers. I rather be true than false christian. true christian follows the rules, false doesn't care about them what do you want to be?
2006-12-30 06:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Many of my gay friends came to terms being a christian and gay.
I have a question for you?
Aren't we all created after his image?
I think it is better to be true to your feelings and at the same time believe what you believe.
Success:I understand this is a struggle but God wants you to be happy too,right?
greetinngs:Rob.
2006-12-30 05:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be true to your feelings, but also believe what you believe. You need to be happy, to make anyone else happy, including God. I use to be in love with someone who picked their religion over being in a relationship, they are married to a man, with kids, and still are not happy. You need to be true to yourself to be true to God.
2006-12-30 06:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up anything about yourself. Life is too short. You will regret doing that. Be yourself. Be happy. Live your life to the fullest.
2006-12-31 04:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by cripesokay2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋