My friend and i have had fantastic sex,more than once.But we dont really see a future in it,can we stay freinds?
2006-12-30 05:17:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think so! There will always be a spark between you two. I'm in a similar situation for over 6 years now.
2006-12-30 05:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by Nina Maria S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There seems to be an attraction there and if you are having sex then there will be feelings also. How can there not be? I mean being that close, sharing intimately with each other, you can't just turn that off like a faucet. No commitment mmm, sounds like you are using each other, or maybe one is taking advantage of the other. If I were in that situation and I am, I would put the brakes on the sex. Friend are hard to come by, and it will only hurt you when he gets into a relationship with someone else.
Friends love and support each other and I know that is what you want for your friend. So be a GREAT FRIEND.
2006-12-30 14:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by Recovery Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes, but you crossed the 'line' when you slept with each other. So now the answer would be no you can't.
Assuming you both will meet someone else in the future, how can that relationship stand a chance of surviving when you say now you are attracted to each other? You don't think any partner will pick up on it when you & your friend are together?
You need to sever all ties with each other, otherwise there is a real possibility of you both messing up numerous relationships with people you care about, & people that care about you.
2006-12-30 13:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by Kingbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How bout you both have fantastic sex with people you do see a future with?? And no, you can't.....temptation will get the best of you both. Friendship is no longer an option....take the lesson and move on.
2006-12-30 13:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can always try, especially if nothing happened to make you angry with each other.
This lust, or physical attraction can either die on its own, or move to something else after you've stopped sleeping with each other.
I mean keeping your hands to yourself and rediscover each other, may show you things about each other that you didn't know and that you like. Or you may just realise that you are getting jealous of the attention given to the other by other people.
2006-12-30 13:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doubt it.
i have never seen this work with anyone else
and it has never worked for me.
someone starts making bitchy comments whenever there is someone new for the other person. then people fall out and the friendship is over.
why cant you make a future from it?
2006-12-30 13:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be a bit tricky, but give it a go anyway, if the frienship is important to you both then yes maybe it could work, but passion is a strong emotion, ecspecially when you fancy the other person!!!
2006-12-30 13:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by ann_jacques 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep me the mrs Done it We been together 35 yrs Mind you we do have seperate rooms in the same house Every now & again we "visit " each other and laugh a lot !
2006-12-30 13:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by pigeon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you can,i mean you both like each other,if later you start to like someone else then at that time you may end up losing the 1st one.so its better to make friendship than to risk him/her.
2006-12-30 13:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion one of the two ends up getting attached...if this doesnt happen,well u might do it but still doesnt sound like true friendship to me.things change when u cross that line.
2006-12-30 14:15:42 · answer #10 · answered by ducitta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋