my partner and i had a discussion, that once you live together sex does not have to be once a day (my partner the male thinks it should be)
2006-12-30 05:15:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Twice!
2006-12-30 05:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just wait until the next time he has a stomach flu....then ask him if he thinks sex should be compulsary.
Personally, I would think making sex mandatory in a relationship (like you're saying) would make it really not all that great. There are times when you just don't feel like having sex, and it's not when you're physically ill either. Of course, once children enter the relationship, then sex really winds up taking a back seat to other priorities in your life.
2006-12-30 05:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to have a healthy realtionship...no matter what is your status...either u r living together or married...u must have sex at least once a day.i think one time is enough.even after a huge quarrel...the make up can be done also by having sex. cos se doesn't only mean the physical need...it is also connected with ur desires & mental stuffs.cos having sex can make two people come closer than they use to be.& in my point sex are had among two people...having the strongest understanding between each other.so u'll definitely understand ur partner's feeling. last but not the least make sex enjoyable & try out new things!
2006-12-30 05:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by kagomi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was about to say: what question is that?!
thinking it was a male one.
But surely it's not something that can be debated is it? I mean it's like going to the toilet, it's surely up to every single person.
And if it's not to the taste of the significant other, then it means that there's an issue which needs to be addressed.
Talk about it very honestly and openly, which can be very difficult for some people, but it is obviously the only way forward.
I mean if you don't dare say to someone what they are doing wrong, don't expect them to stop it, improve it or change it.
Same way if you don't say what you like, well, it may well never happen.
Some might even have to consider a therapist, but again it's very delicate for some.
It's definitely a personal and couple issue. Not a national, regional or local one at all.
2006-12-30 05:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say that familiarity breeds contempt. That is what you need to say to your partner.
It sounds like the two of you have made sex the bone of contention. Sorry for the pun, but couples usually fight over things like sex and money, but what they don't realize is that it's really about control and who has it and who does not have it.
I suggest that you sit down and have a serious talk with him about this. Your sex drive may be not as strong as his is OR it may just be he's not "ringing your chimes". This would also need to be discussed, but don't discuss it in bed! Wait until the two of you are not in the bedroom to talk about this.
If you like being in a relationship where the man calls all the shots, go for it, but I will tell you it gets rather tedious after awhile. Communicate with your lover and tell him you need him to.............. whatever you think you need from him. If he really cares about you, he is going to want to please you. Good Luck!
2006-12-30 05:31:29 · answer #5 · answered by Pixie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since so many women think it should stop altogether once the male is trapped in the relationship, them maybe the legal route is the way to go.
It should be against the law that you women think you can stop making an effort, let yourselves go, cut your hair short and "practical" and have 1001 excuses lined up so as not to have sex.
2006-12-30 05:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a crock of crap. Men should give women more love, affection and attention and that will mean we feel special enough to give them sexy time. The reason we don't feel like sex is because men are like dogs, sniffing around for the next leg over and don't invest romantically in their women. Then they get annoyed that we don't want to rip our knickers off for them! Clueless and lost, they get annoyed when all we want is some cuddles and them to listen to us, which will lead to a bit of jiggy eventually if they learn to play the game. Never mind boys, the rampant rabbit wins again...
2006-12-30 06:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by stephaniespectacular 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your partner is wrong!! If your partner has moved in, than I would consider it more than SEX, I would have to say that there is a commitment of love, So you are no longer just having SEX, you are making LOVE!! Making LOVE doesn't always have to involve penetration. It can be something as simple as holding each other, and caressing.
2006-12-30 05:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by lariat_sonata 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am a female and I think it should be made compulsory at least once a day, definitely.
as long as both partners are happy with that.
2006-12-30 06:20:37 · answer #9 · answered by vegetable soup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.......sex once a day is prescriptive and makes no allowance for anything else bar that. Would your male partner (assuming the question relates to the partnership) want you to demand sex from him if he 'thought he was dying' cos he had 'flu, for example. Would you want him to of you if you were ill?That is a wholly unrealistic expectation.
2006-12-30 05:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
It works for me!
Seriously it depends on the couple, Both partners must agree and feel comfortable with this arrangement.
2006-12-30 05:48:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋