I'm just really confused about it need some guidence
2006-12-30 05:08:33 · 8 answers · asked by Marie_Do 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
A lot of people are sexually and physically attracted to people from their same gender. If you have an strong emotional attraction to people of the same gender.... you may be homosexual or bisexual.
2006-12-30 05:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the thing about sexuality is that it's been abused today for pleasure while it was made for making children, you know like sperm egg and birth. today you just take a condom and there's really not much meaning in sex anymore but self-approvement like "I can have him / her so I must be a good person"? I don't know, I just know I don't need sex, the sex drive goes away with time....If you want someone, just want a guy and you'll see there's probably not many guys you really want, because if you want a guy you should want his sperm too, logically, sorry for speaking so direct, but that's how I see it. Like an animal. Why should you have sex....why is this society so fixated on sex. I'm better off alone than with someone I don't want all of. The two become one flesh. biblically. that's all.
2006-12-30 14:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to sit down and think about what it is that you like and be completely honest with yourself. What you feel is right for you sexually usually defines your sexuality. It's not easy but it worked for me, sometimes we give ourselves a harder time than anyone else would.
2006-12-30 15:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by Broken hearted 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're going to have to give us more examples of how you are feeling. I don't even know if you are a boy or girl. Try asking another question being more specific.
2006-12-30 13:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by MCRlover12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way is to go with your heart. When you see a man or woman, which one do you long to touch? when your around either sex - which one do you notice first (curves, traits, etc.) those are all signs of which you are drawn to. think about it.
2006-12-30 20:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by chuzzlemegreen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can like people emotionally from your same gender and not be gay. But if you think about people sexually from your same gender, you are gay. If you think about people sexually from both genders, than you are bi. You already know what you are (I can't tell you), but I think that if you know you're gay, you're afraid of being different.
2006-12-30 15:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only one way to be absolutely certain - and that is to try it out. Before you do however, be sure that you do feel attraction for the person - both their body and their personality.
2006-12-30 13:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just think of who you see yourself growing old with and spending the rest of your life with. follow your heart. and then youll know
2006-12-31 06:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋