have you ever cheated on your husband/wife just because you were bored sexually? What was the outcome? did they find out? If they did find out, did they stay with you, or leave you?
I am not yet married, but i have a few friends who are, and they've found out that their spouse cheated, but they take them back. Hearing about this sometimes makes me nervous to get married. I was just wondering your experience.
2006-12-30 04:57:45 · 17 answers · asked by Stark 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I will never cheat. I am worried about getting cheated on if my future husband gets bored of Me.
2006-12-30 05:04:23 · update #1
Yes. I wasn't getting what I needed at home. There's no way to guarantee that your spouse won't cheat on you. Be yourself, and make your marriage a top priority. If he does cheat, do some soulsearching to see if you can live with an unfaithful spouse or if you need to move on. It's not enough to forgive. You need to become blind to his cheating or it will take a toll on you. Even if the both of you are deeply in love when you get married, those feelings will diminish over time into something more comfortable. That's when you both will become complacent about the marriage and opportunities to cheat will pop up. Good luck, and I hope your marriage is one of the few that lasts without any betrayals.
2006-12-30 05:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 21:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't but my dad cheated on my mom. It ruins families. If you are worried about getting bored, don't. There are many toys, videos, positions, places to keep you sexually satisfied. Try things that you may never think you would want to try, and then you won't be bored. It is important to not ruin other peoples lives! and your own. If you do that just because you are horny, I feel bad.
In a marriage there is give and take. You need to take initiative in relationships and step out of your comfort zone sometimes. Most cheating stems from boredom. If you try new things, and try to make the other person happy, I quarantee you will be happy too! Marriage is a blessing!! Sharing your life with that special person is a wonderful gift. If you aren't ready for marriage don't get married yet. But when you do, it is tough and it is hard work. Good luck with this!!
2006-12-30 05:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by dezzer85 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did once with a teacher on my ex wife. I went back to school as a mature student and the teacher told me lots of personal stuff and I her. My ex and I were not getting along very well at the time and she needed some comforting so we met at a hotel. We had a great time in the sack but I felt awful for doing this and do so to this day, even though I am no longer with this woman. There are plenty of opportunities to be unfaithful for the majority of people today. But I am now engaged to a wonderful woman and I know that I will and have been faithful to her and will remain that way. The guilt of 5 minutes (or a day, night or whatever) is not worth cheating in my opinion. My fiance and I live 2.5 hours from each other and as always once your in a relationship the possibilities appear endless for others to become interested in you. But honesty and open communication can stop these things from occurring.
2006-12-30 05:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ive been cheated on but never cheated myself im too loyal
i was with a guy two accually that cheated on me i always gave them a second chance knowing full well they would do it again but it said something to them if i gave them that chance it said that i did care about them and that they were the reason that i ended the relationship. when i was younger being cheated on crushed me not that it doesnt now its just i know that i can still have a friend relationship with that person and them still know that they wont ever have more than that.
its a take it or leave it situation its what you make of it and you cant know how it effects you till it happens but just get it in your head that its his fault you werent good enough for him(in the case of sexual bordem) and that you did what you could to keep the relationship legit and youll have the clear consceince.
dont be afraid to fail because trying is half the fun just be happy for as long as it last even if that happens to be to the day that you die or next week
2006-12-30 05:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by disk_dragon 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I had a wonderful young man approach me once. Quite young (36 to my 48), with a lovely face and the father of two young children.
We were both married and we talked about our spouses and our family life and it didn't take long for us to become attracted to one another.
We talked into the night and when the right moment came I was dying for him to kiss me and more.
He leaned over and closed his eyes.
I slapped him hard and sent him packing and home to his wife and kids. I want home to my husband.
Getting the attention of an attractive person of the opposite sex is a rush. Even married people need a rush once in a while. It's hard to go quietly into the night...never to return to the world of single people, night life, fun and flirting. But I made my choice years ago. I have what I asked for.
So, while I think it's OK to look, Just don't ever touch. And if one isn't grown up enough to remember that then one isn't ready to get married.
2006-12-30 05:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by outdone 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If i ever thought I cheating on my husband I would leave him and this isnt going to happen.
2006-12-30 04:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Val 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never had cheated on him, never will. I love him too much and want no one else.
2006-12-30 04:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by JH 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mine did, and it ended with her asking for divorce. I never suspected her, being blinded with trust, believing she is not the type of person to do it. Now she is my ex.
2006-12-30 05:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by Philip76LostLove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if your nervous to get married then dont get married unless you really love each other
2006-12-30 05:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by rain will wash the pain away... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋