When I was coming home from school, i saw this guy who said hi to me then we went our separate ways. All of a sudden its like he was following me and when i turn around, he would pretend to be going another way this happened constantly until i got in front of my building then he walked up to me. And asked me where i'm from, how old i am, where i go to school, and if i have a boyfriend. He said am i sure when i said i did not have a boyfriend. He also asked me for my number but i said no, then he pressured me to take his number. After that he kept asking if i was going to call him tonight. He look's in his late 20's and i'm 14.
2006-12-30 04:53:29 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That sounds pretty scary. Did you tell your parent or guardian? I'd say that is way weird. He is too old to be doing that. If he is around your age that is still scary. Make sure your family and friends know about it so that nothing happens. Be safe!
2006-12-30 04:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by dezzer85 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should do is tell one of your parents about it and ask that parent to be with you when you call the police and give them his phone number. They will take care of him! If you see him again, go back to school, find a staff member and call the police.
You are a wise 14 year old to recognize that this man is doing something wrong.
2006-12-30 05:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey this is called Stalking and there is a law against it now. Tell your parents immediately. Many years ago I was stalked by a man for six months. At that time there wasn't a law against it, thank God that changed. It was a terrible time for me and my family. I had even made up my mind if he held a gun on me I'd make him shoot me on the spot rather than take me to some remote place and do no telling what. The fact that you are a minor and he is not will get him arrested fast. Please Sweetie, tell someone now and I'll be praying for you.
2006-12-30 05:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by Pearl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. He sounds very, very strange. You're only fourteen -- I'm not saying dating a twenty-year-old is always wrong, but this particular guy doesn't sound right in the head. Stalking a fourteen-year-old girl as she's coming home from school isn't a normal practice for a man of his age.
2006-12-30 04:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by autumnstarsong 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not call him. Your life could be on the line. He could be some wacko stalking you. Call the police, report him, and give them the phone number that the guy gave to you. Also whenever you go anywhere try not to go alone. Do the Buddy System when you go out.
2006-12-30 05:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by katriana30 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, DONT call him, and if he countines to bother you try telling him to leave you alone, if not tell your parents or a close person to help you. And in case things really get out of control go to the police!
I hope is nothing serious and you will be ok!
2006-12-30 04:58:03 · answer #6 · answered by Cristina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is too old for you and keep your parents informed about it and also your movements. They are the best to judge the position and if possible call the police.
2006-12-30 04:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by Tony 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14, and he's in his late 20's? Call the cops, dear.
2006-12-30 04:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone about it. Even tell the police. A man of that age should not be hassling 14 year old girls...
2006-12-30 04:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by tammy d 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he's going to stalk you for a while. Get a guy friend to accompany you home.
2006-12-30 04:56:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋