I am an older man (over 40) I hang out with boys in their late teens. I sometimes have feelings for them, but I try to not let them know. Should I make "moves" on them. Would taking them to a waterpark so I can see them shirtless be considered weird?
2006-12-30 04:34:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If they are under the age of 18 it's illegal so no don't make moves on them unless you want to spend many years in prison.
2006-12-30 19:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're getting some good, and some not so good, advise here.Most of us are sexually attracted to good looking young people, whether straight or gay. However, we live in a society that has rules, and most of them are there for good reasons. In this case, it is illegal to have sex with people under 18 in most states, so those who are telling you to abstain for legal reasons are giving you sound advice.Also, from a moral point of view, an age difference of more than 10 years is usually frowned upon, and 20-25 year age difference especially so. Your interests and life goals are just way too different.If you want to see shirtless young studs, it's far safer to watch them on MTV in the privacy of your home. As for dating, there are LOTS of available guys your age out there, and lots of them are stud muffins (when you find the right one, he'll be a stud muffin in YOUR eyes, no matter what he looks like to others!!). Stick with them; you'll be much happier in the long run. And forget those Bible beaters; they're idiots!
2007-01-01 05:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by ticklishguy8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not make moves. Yes the waterpark thing would definately be weird. Don't ever put these thoughts to actions. It's wrong. No offense, but you are way to old for them.
2006-12-30 04:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by MCRlover12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUDE, don't be a pedophile! It's against the law, doncha know? And when you say "late teens", do you mean 19 year olds? ANd yes, the waterpark thing... that's just plain weird.
2006-12-30 04:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Waffle! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with your feelings. I sometimes feel the same way (although I chase 20 year olds, not teens). There is something about a chisled, young man that makes me feel ssoooooo giddy inside. Just be sure that the guy you want is interested in you too!!!
2006-12-30 04:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by turfkey, steve 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't make any "moves" on anyone 17 and younger; AND only IF you have permission from the ones who are OLDER and know you well enough.
2006-12-30 05:10:02 · answer #6 · answered by grumpyfiend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldnt make a move and you should stop seeing them as if this moment and go out with people your age.
2006-12-30 04:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by Shady E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not act on these feelings. This is abusive of their trust & friendship.
Find someone your own age to act out with. Or, better yet...deal with your own feelings in a healthy, non-erotic way.
2006-12-30 04:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are on the verge of being a pedophile if you aren't one already. Stay away from them!!!!
2006-12-30 04:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by Broken hearted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't hang out with them.
And yes, the water-park thing is weird.
2006-12-30 04:36:36 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋