The thing is, he's getting "married" to another man. I don't like homosexuals, and I don't really like my dad too much, but he wants me to come to the "wedding". I'm thinking about going and getting really smashed and telling them what I really think about their lifestyle. Good idea or not?
2006-12-30 04:34:01 · 13 answers · asked by white.devil 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no thats wrong. its still their wedding day and everyone on their wedding deserves it to b a good day no matter how much u dislike the situation. you can express how u feel b4 or after the wedding but not while intoxicated. despite how ur dad and ur relationship is betwwen the two of u, he still has feelings and is a human being.
2006-12-30 04:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No not a good idea. No matter how you feel about this would you want someone to come to your wedding just to ruin it? Be smart and don't go if you don't agree on it. But you know I have to say that I know some gay people and the men that are gay have been very dear to my heart. I am a married woman with two kids and I believe that for whatever the reason that they chose their way of living it still goes to say, LIVE AND LET LIVE . If you try and behave and get to know this man you just might find that you may meet one of the nicest people you have ever met. They can also make a dear friend , they don't want anything from you except your friendship. Can you say that about most men? I hope it all works out for you and that you learn to accept people for who they are and not who you think they should be.
2006-12-30 05:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you LOVE your dad? Do you want him to be happy? Just because you don't agree with his choices doesn't mean you have to be an a**hole about it. If he's making a mistake, he needs to find that out on his own, and he will sooner or later. You don't attend a wedding because you necessarily agree with it, you attend because you love and support at least one of the parties involved. It's "his day", let him have it. Stay OFF the stage, and save your drunken soapbox for another time.
If you're lucky, YOU just may learn a little tolerance for other attitudes. What's right for one person may not be right for someone else, and his lifestyle choice doesn't have to get in your way.
2006-12-30 04:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GROW THE HELL UP!!! I'm sure you've done things in your life he didn't approve of, but he still stood by you! If you can't support him, stay away! It has nothing to do with you, It's his day. You want to tell him how you feel? Do it another time. A stunt like that will make him never talk to you again! Think about it, is getting your point across worth loosing him forever? Be a good son, or stay away!
2006-12-30 04:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't say I know how you feel but I'm not really big on homosexuality myself...If you father wants you to be there, I say go, grin and try not to let your dissapproval show....if your not on good terms at all with your dad, then why bother putting your self in an uncomfortable position of watching two guys kiss...not cute...
2006-12-30 04:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by Pryceless 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My opinion: go but not gripe! They have love. Yer ol' man has limited years left. Think for yourself how very brief a year is and how his are numbered. Let him count his in peace.
2006-12-30 04:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by fjpoblam 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead and get drunk, say all the things you would like to say, BUT, Do it at home. It is your dad's choice, let him have his day.
2006-12-30 04:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him how you feel he will understand if he loves you and you might want to get to know the other guy.
2006-12-30 04:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by emmaboo101 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HELL YEAH
GO THERE AND TELL YOUR PANSY DAD HOW YOU FEEL
VOMIT ALL OVER THEIR TUXES
LOL
DANCE ALL OVER LIKE A WILD MANIAC AND THROW UP EVERYWHERE
THROW OVER TABLES AND SING 'ITS RAINING MEN' FROM THE TOP OF YOUR LUNGS
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO-HOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
2006-12-30 04:35:53 · answer #9 · answered by cryingrainbow 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Please don't do that to him, does he tell you how to live your life and who to date???, have some respect for your dad please, you do not have to approve of his life style, your his daughter not his mother
2006-12-30 07:59:02 · answer #10 · answered by myself 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋