My boss keeps staring at my body (I'm pregnant.) Whenever he sees me, it seems like he focuses his eyes on my stomach and breasts and isn't even listening to what I'm saying. A few times, he's even said that I look beautiful.
I'm MARRIED! He knows that! I'm not attracted to him at all, but the fact that he is so turned on by my pregnant body is a little disturbing. Do you know what I could say or do to deterr him?
2006-12-30 04:24:18 · 9 answers · asked by lvh_whitman 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
He's a very nice person and I don't want to sue him. I know I could turn this into a possible sexual harrassment case, but all I really want is advice on how to say, "Can you please stop this, I'm feeling uncomfortable," etc. Honestly, I think his whole pregnancy fetish is gross.
2006-12-30 04:37:39 · update #1
Talk to your female co-workers that might help you in this case and call them on their phones [give a missed call] as a signal to come near you and watch your boss do that. They'll sympathise and would roue for you.
Best of luck and....
2006-12-30 04:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eww.. I have this problem alot men stare and it's like dude can't you see that I am pregnant. Men are just sickos sometimes and some find women more attractive when there pregnant cause then they know that the woman were gettin booty and they got pregnant and i guess for some odd reason it turns them on. i thought that big belly and leaky breasts would turn a man off LOL. but good luck anyways. Men stare it's there life. But you could start doing sick things to make him not want u anymore like fart or burp in front of him or say oohh i wish i knew who the father was haha.. just joking.
2006-12-30 04:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by mommyinneedofhelp 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sexual harassment is SERIOUSLY against the law!!! If he keeps on, don't say anything to him, he will fire you in retaliation. Call an attorney, preferably a woman attorney ( a male attorney will blow you off or take the case only for the money) that specializes in sexual harassment. You might be the boss next!!
2006-12-30 04:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by Montecar3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely say something to him the next time he approaches you like that. he sounds kind of creepy and pervy so remind him in a subtle way that you are married and don't like creeps that check you out at work cause its weird and uncomfortable!
2006-12-30 04:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by ziomy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling him you are married or that you are uncomfortable with his attention likely won't stop him from behaving like he has. But do try that first. If that fails, threaten him with a sexual harrassment suit and if he doesn't stop, follow through with it.
2006-12-30 04:35:40 · answer #5 · answered by ~*BS~MRA~Girl*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he is doing is wrong. Tell him that he is making you uncomfortable. If he does it again report him to his boss and be prepared to contact a lawyer if his boss doesn't do anything. You deserve to work in a better working environment.
Good Luck to you and your family
Quin
2006-12-30 04:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by quinlangal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do understand your being sexually harasses.
Let him know your uncomfortable with his actions.
Tell him you have eyes and would like for him to look at your eyes not your body.
Good luck.
2006-12-30 04:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what you just said. Tell him that you're not attracted to him, and that you love you HUSBAND. if he doesn't back off after that I would report him, you shouldn't have to put up with that, expecially from your boss.
2006-12-30 04:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take that from him
2006-12-30 04:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋