she's my bestfriend we have had sleepovers we helped eachother out with problems and the other day we where in the bathroom together she was taking a shower and doing her make up 2 and i was in there with her and she didnt have a towel on and i couldnt keep my eyes off of her...... am i in love with my bestfriend? ps we were not taking a shower together.....
2006-12-30 03:54:42 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley D 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I have experienced a similar event. I was spending the night at my bfgf house and we showered at the same time and did our makeup together. I was looking at her amazing body and she asked if I was enjoying the view. I told her what an amazing body she had and she just said thanks and continued to get ready. Later when we came back to her place we ended up sleeping together and having some very intimate fun!
2006-12-30 05:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ronni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could be starting to get attracted to her. I had a simular experience and it started w/ sleepovers also, and no we hadn't had sex and still havent but we always had long conversations till the early morning helping each other w/ our problems and we flirt alot also. Anyways, we will be getting together but right now the timing isn't right yet. By the way just take it day by day and talk about your feelings with each other. Good Luck!
2006-12-30 16:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by Noclue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't necessarily mean that you are in love with her....it might mean that you find her attractive or have a crush on her and you just never realized it until that moment. I wouldnt claim that just by seeing her in the shower, you are suddenly in love. it takes more than that to be truly in love. But it sounds like you might have feelings for her so try figuring that out first and then you can see if it turned out to be love.
2006-12-31 03:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thts kinda tricky u ave to ask ya self r u physically attractd to her do u think about her 24/7 do u get jealous whn she talks or flirts wiv other guys. u may not b a lesbian but u mite b bi. think about all these things coz im bi and also ave found my self in similar situation wiv my best friend whn i avent been able to take my eyes off her. and tht is whn i relised tht i was in love wiv her and i was bi. there is nothin wrong wiv it and people shud take u as u r even your best friend so u ave a think bout how u really feel bout her thn mayb talk to her bout it. if she is a true friend she wil understand and stick by u and u neva no mayb in the future sumthin mite develope between u 2.
2006-12-30 14:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by dudett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be. How do you feel about yourself? Maybe there is something about her you wish you had. Not just physically, but emotionally, etc... Is she open to a girl/girl relationship? I'm not trying to generalize, but I know when I was in my early teens, I often felt infatuated with my girlfriends. It was because they possessed qualities I wished I had. Good Luck!
2006-12-30 12:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by jessica s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might just be curious. Do you think you have feelings for her aside from wanting to see her naked? If so, then you might be in love with her but it's hard to tell since I don't know that much about your situation.
2006-12-30 12:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by MCRlover12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're definitely interested in her. Now, what are you going to do about it?
2007-01-01 21:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋