2006-12-30 03:53:06 · 14 answers · asked by golfer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The only thing you can really do is talk to her when it's just the two of you and see why she wants out of the marriage and if there's a way to change her thoughts about leaving. It may or may not work depending on her reasons for wanting to leave. I mean if she met another man and that's her reason chances are she's still going to leave. But if it's something you do or do not do that you can change well you might have a chance to work thru the problems and keep your marriage together. good luck ;o)
2006-12-30 04:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do if she wants to go. Not knowing what made her want to leave you, let her go. Take the time to do some self improvement like physical, emotional, and spiritual improvement (working out, counseling, and church). Keep loving your children and be there for them especially the 14 yr old.
As for the wife, keep the lines of communication open but listen and respond; don't beg. The worst thing you can do at this point is beg her to stay or if she goes, beg her to come back. Don't say you love her a lot. In my experience, that pushes the wife further away. Listen and respond to what she says. 25 yrs is a lot to walk away from and only you know what has been going on behind closed doors. At this point, there are know guarantees so the last bit of advice I can give is to always be positive and never harp on the negative.
Good Luck
2006-12-30 04:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try finding out the real motives her decision to leave. If she needs her freedom after 25 years or is ready to start over, there is no way to save the marriage without feelings of resentment. Good luck.
2006-12-30 05:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by Tara M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY does she want to leave the marriage? There is still a child at home. Leaving would break up the family & hurt the youngest, but also the eldest. What part do you have in her decision? You two may have to dig deeply to find the real cause; your marriage is worth it. Your family is worth it.
2006-12-30 04:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing i have learned in and out of my marriage was that if the other person is wanting to leave then their going to leave no matter what you say and most of the time no matter what you do.
Try to keep the communication line open for the sake of your 13 year old. Good luck and god bless!
2006-12-30 03:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by Robin t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a person wants out, then nothing you do or say wll keep her. At least the kids are old enough to understand some of what is going on.
2006-12-30 03:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer pay attention to his empty supplies you. in case you tell him which you're leaving he will verify to vow you that "this time" he will go away his spouse. don't have faith it. he's in basic terms asserting that to get you shelter sufficient to stay and him stay together with his spouse too. i'm sorry yet he can't go away her, and that i do no longer think of he's going to enable go of you with no combat the two. i'd say the terrific way would be to unfastened all touch with him, yet now you have a baby in touch. in case you may stay to tell the tale with none of his help then do it. get rid of him and finally end up a single guy this time.
2016-12-15 11:37:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find out why she wants to leave it may be something you can do nothing about. But if it is something you did or did not do try and change it for her. Sorry with out knowing thats all i can say.
2006-12-30 10:14:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SInce you haven't mentioned why she wants to leave, it's not possible to give you an intelligent answer. More information is needed.
2006-12-30 04:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try setting down and talking with her.
I can not say why see wants to leave so I can not say what to do to have her stay.
2006-12-30 03:58:47 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋