I have a friend through Yahoo messenger who is naturally a nice guy. He is a little bit wierd at times but that is ok. The big thing that really concerns me about this friend though, he is married and apperenty happily but he sleeps around. According to him, it is not a problem for the marriage ( it seems ) and possibly the wife does the same.
Am I wrong for telling him what I think of that? I am not harsh about it, but I let him know that I think it is kind of inappropriate. To me " Till death do us part " is a binding contract. You break that contract the first time you go against the marriage.
Am I right? Is it ok for me to mention from time to time I don't like it? Should I just let him enjoy the way he lives his life?
Thanks in advance.
2006-12-30 03:52:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sure you can and if they ain't happy with one another anymore then they just need to spilt up and start seeing other people again. cause it just ain't normal for people to be married but both still mess around. maybe they got married when they were young and weren't ready to be with the same person for the rest of their lives
2006-12-30 04:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by gibbs_20_11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person is married but doesn't do the right thing for the marrige then hes probably not a truthful person and you shouldn't even be friends with people like that because believe it or not "bad people can make good people bad and good people can make bad people good".
You probably should let him know that if he does bad things WHILE hes married then he should get divorced because maybe the other person could want a better life..... and i think u would be doing the right thing.
2006-12-30 12:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by daniaamily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him once. If he tells you that it's his business and he doesn't want to talk about it or something else along those lines, then don't bring it up again. Concern is nice, but ultimately the choice is his to make.
2006-12-30 11:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by blackbird23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to say how you feel, but don't pound it in constantly. It doesn't mean he feels the same way.
2006-12-30 11:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by kiki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no everybody has opinion,its ok to mention it from time to time yes
2006-12-30 12:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by princess10196 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're entitled to your opinion. Express it!
2006-12-30 11:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by ok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right.
2006-12-30 11:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right , there are so many males just like him
2006-12-30 12:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by cuttiiee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋