2006-12-30 03:31:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not necessarily, sometimes they get wrapped up in the moment and can't think of anything else but themselves but you need to tell him that you are not satisfied in the bedroom and ask him does he even care that he is not satisfying you. I did it with my husband and he acknowledged it and made changes the very next time we meet in the bedroom!!!
2006-12-30 03:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by meka30 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO, doesn't mean he don't care, simply means he is very selfish... This will not be something easy to break him of either... selfishness is learned at a very early age... and the bedroom is just ONE area where it will be noticed.
Limit time spent with people like this and life will be good !!
2006-12-30 04:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by Kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what it is he is being selfish with and if what you expect is in contrast to what he was accustomed to in his relationships before you. Everyone cares about the other person to a degree. Even if it is just for sex. In relationships we tend to take our disappointments in our mate and start building an exit plan out of them. Try to get to the issue of why he is not performing for you and then try a little give and take with him.
2006-12-30 04:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by RJA4U 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if he is always selfish. Have you told him you want or need something? If you have... and he hasn't even tried to please you, then he probably doesn't care.
But if he's at least trying, he probably does care. Hell sometimes in bed I can be selfish, but if my partner says they want something, then I try please them.
Sex is a two way street. its give and take, just like a relationship. Selfishness, is when its a one way street.
2006-12-30 03:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by joulesofaffection 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has no clue he is being selfish. Men especially when they are young think that just having an erection and having sex is all they have to do. They are clueless. This is what you need to do. You need to tell him what you want and how you want it. Tell him to take it slow and have lots of fourplay before he has sex with you. He might not even have any idea that he is being selfish. Talk to him.
2006-12-30 08:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just be a lousy lover. Take the time, tell him, show him what you want. If after that he is still selfish it may be time to think about the relationship. Nobody starts out knowing what to do. It takes time to understand your lover's body and desires. Too many young women fake their pleasure and then don't know how to change his ways.
2006-12-30 03:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by cece 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he does not care or maybe you have not told him what you want and need. Most men don't have that built in, they need to be told. Especially now days since most women are "easy" men tend to not need to work for anything as it is gave to them. Communication can work wonders try it and see what happens, if he/she does not listen. Then it could be far from over, as most people do not change. They stay set in old ways.
2007-01-01 13:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by κύριος κτίστης 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, he CARES all right! Only, not about you unfortunately. He ONLY cares about himself! If this is your situation, you need to move on and find a man that is not selfish.
2006-12-30 03:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is just a selfish person I guess. Maybe you should let him know how u feel. It also depends how long you two have been together.
2006-12-30 03:37:48 · answer #9 · answered by ๑The Goddess๑ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I dont think so, it just means hes a man.
Man dont always think when they become aroused, blood rushes to other parts of the body besides the brain. They just dont realize that we need more warm up time AND finish time then they do.
2006-12-30 04:39:17 · answer #10 · answered by just_trump_my_ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋