Help i really really need help how do i stop myself from?

Question

looking fat tonight.????
I have heard it's ladies night in my local and only slim good looking men are invited!!!!


That is sooooo unfair my son just told me he has got an invite grrrrrrrr

Answer 1

stop it now.you have lost half the battle in feeling sorry for yourself!!!
i don't know you're age but that is not important.you are sensitive enough to ask this question so in my books 50% advantage already.slim good looking men, yeh full of themsleves and wanting a dolly bird who is not going to outshine them tooo much!!!!!!
if i were you i would advertise a FULLER FIGURE ,HAPPY PERSONS EVENING IN THE LOCAL??? god it would not be hard to do i bet a load of pubs would chomp at the bit to get that event.and it would be so much more fun and no skinny no conversational male and females would be there.this time next year they would be 140 pounds heavier n and banging at the door.go for it if you want to meet senseless non-eating brainless people X

Answer 2

To each their own. How do you know they don't think you look slim and good looking? Where what you know you look good in and just show up. :)

Even if they don't, who cares, why would you want to be around a bunch of goody two shoes.

It is how you feel inside that counts. You can invite some people over to your place for a dinner, forget them. You can have fun without them. Stand tall and be proud of who you are. Don't let people who judge others get you down. I am sure there are people who think the opposite of what they say about you. You have to believe in yourself.

I just found this website:http://www.wikihow.com/Dress-to-Make-Yourself-Look-Skinnier
How to Dress to Make Yourself Look Skinnier
Whether you've got a hot date or big interview, read on for some great tips on how to look slimmer.


Steps
Buy clothes that fit you. Whether you are a size 8 or a size 48, if you wear the wrong size clothes, you'll end up looking bigger than you are. Wearing clothes that are too tight leads to bulges and lumps, so try things on before you buy them. And choosing clothes which are too big adds to your size and makes you look fatter.
Choose items which skim over areas you want to disguise. For instance, if you want to make your tummy look flatter, move away from skin tight vests, and choose a flattering tunic. Instead of choosing a mini skirt, hide chunky thighs under a floaty skirt. However if you go baggy, this will also make you look larger.
Make sure you are wearing the right underwear. Thongs and g-strings are all well and good if you have no fat on your body, but if you want to give the illusion of a skinny figure, go for supportive styles which help to pull in the tummy. A well fitting bra can also help to create a smoother slimmer figure.
Highlight your good bits! If you have a beautiful slender neck, but a bit of weight on your waistline, draw attention to your neck with an eyecatching necklace, or other accessories. If you have toned arms, wear a sleeveless top to make the most of your assets.
Work on your posture. Stand up straight, pull your stomach in, and your shoulders back. You can practice posture by balancing a book on your head and walking - the book shouldn't fall off! Whenever you get the chance, look in the mirror and make sure you are not hunched over. This is possibly the MOST important tip, as bad posture can add pounds visually.



Tips
Black is great as a quick fix as it is very slimming.
Vertical stripes give the illusion of slimness, but watch out - horizontal stripes do the opposite**


When choosing vertical stripes, go for the narrow ones. Broad stripes can make you look larger. However, be aware that very clingy and tight vertically striped clothing will accentuate every blip and bulge.
Be confident - it's the best way to make people notice you!
Just because it's the latest fad doesn't mean it'll look good on you. Learn to choose clothes that flatter your figure, and not just because it's the hottest style. If you must, try to select a variant of the style that will work best for you.
Never wear anything shiny over an area you are trying to hide.
Contrary to popular belief, larger people can wear brighter colored clothes as long as their clothes work with their body and fit properly.

Answer 3

Not much you can really do in a few hours but try to dress is layered clothing. It will give you an appearance of being heavy but the clothes will hide at least some of your extra weight.

Answer 4

I would suggest that you not change your appearance at all. Simply walk into the pub and if anyone looks at you funny, as if to imply that you aren't as slim as they are, just do a lively jig in front of them and chant three times "I'm a skinny minny". Now, I can't promise you that this will convince them you are slim, but I'm pretty sure it will convince them that you are clearly insane and they'll just leave you alone after that. Good Luck!!!

Answer 5

hmm, do you think you fat or is this just paranoia? If so, then it's only natural to think so when you're going out somewhere. Don't worry about other people or who's invited there, just be yourself and say "you DO look good." If they invite you, they'll invite you. if not, then it's THEIR lost, right? :-)

Answer 6

Stay home, and try an date some mature women your own age. You let yourself go and become a fat piece of crap. Why should you be surprised that women don't want to sleep with the Michelin man!

Answer 7

Dont wear something tight. Make sure you wear a jacket or something baggy over a shirt and youll look normal.

Answer 8

OMG.Dont worry about it.Just dress nice even if its casual.Where clean duds & you'll be fine.Everyone is different sizes.What counts is a man's charactor.Smile & have a great time.

Answer 9

get the clingfilm out, at least 2 pkt´s, dance all afternoon with your wife, then by the time you get there, you´ll be like a stick off celery, no one will notice you at all

Answer 10

join a health club or see a doc and get on an even keel of exercise and diet you will fweel much better about yourself